Should I be worried?

[hepcat]

So you think he would force her?

 

 

Brother if you think dude might sexually assault your girl you should beat his ass anyway.

 

 

If you mean you think he might start trying to mack on her then again I'd ask, do you trust her?

 

I don't think he'd force her.  I don't know him all that well but he doesn't seem like that kinda guy plus besides the car ride they'll be around a bunch of other people.  I can almost guarantee he is going to mack on her and I do trust her but, doesn't stop be from worrying.  I plan on talking to her about it tonight and seeing how that goes.

[Darth Biscuit]

I you PM me pics of your gf I'll be able to tell you if you should be worried or not.

[TheRed]

If you can't trust him, then you can't trust her. Simple as that man. Sucks, but it's true.

[thefuzz]

That whole "they were friends before they hooked up" story is rubbish.

 

 

He wanted to be in there, got put into the friend zone, and she slipped up one night.

 

It's what every guy wants that gets inserted into the friend zone.

[logic1977]

Yes you should be worried.

[Shepard Fairey]

She's getting pounded and there's nothing you can do.

[Chimera]

Just take the passive aggressive route.

Go buy some of those "flavor enhancer" syrups from a sex shop.

Hold it up and say, with a big cheesy smile, "look what I have for Wilmington! Giggle giggle giggle"

Then give her another one and say "here, so you can test it out on your trip to raleigh"

I guarantee she will cancel that leg of the trip.

[PanthaSan]

I am wondering if a ride with an old lover for conveinience sake is worth all the worry it is causing you.

 

Guys be devious and stuff.  He might see it as a chance to hit it and maybe he might not.  Was he your friend at one time?  Does he care about how you would feel?

 

Either way, it seems there is some doubt on your part.  If you trust her, fine, it wil all be ok.  If you have doubt, maybe there is a reason for that.

 

Look at it from a third party point of view.

 

How would you feel if it was me giving the ride?

[PanthersBigD]

This is not some loyalty exercise. You don't have to prove to yourself or anyone else that you trust her by letting her catch a ride with someone with whom she's got a shady past. If it bothers you, it bothers you and you should say something.

 

No, it's not normal procedure for a woman you're dating to casually tell you she's going to hitch a ride somewhere with a guy she's fuged in the past. If she doesn't get why that's a problem, then you're with the wrong woman.

 

In a perfect world you could trust your girlfriend in that situation. However in a perfect world, she wouldn't put herself in that situation to begin with.

[Mr. Scot]

Kiss her on the forehead and you'll have her forever.

 

You are so wrong :lol:

 

As to the topic, hate to say it but honestly, if you can't trust her, you haven't got much of a basis for anything.

 

if she's uncertain about your relationship at all, holding on tighter could push her away.

 

I'm reminded of a buddy of mine who asked a friend of his (no, not me) to 'look after' a girl he loved while he was away.  Three guesses how that story ended :( 

 

[PanthaSan]

I hit it?  

 

:)

[Anybodyhome]

This is not some loyalty exercise. You don't have to prove to yourself or anyone else that you trust her by letting her catch a ride with someone with whom she's got a shady past. If it bothers you, it bothers you and you should say something.

 

No, it's not normal procedure for a woman you're dating to casually tell you she's going to hitch a ride somewhere with a guy she's fuged in the past. If she doesn't get why that's a problem, then you're with the wrong woman.

 

In a perfect world you could trust your girlfriend in that situation. However in a perfect world, she wouldn't put herself in that situation to begin with.

 

No, it's not normal procedure for a woman you're dating to casually tell you she's going to hitch a ride somewhere with a guy she's fuged in the past. If she doesn't get why that's a problem, then you're with the wrong woman.

 

This. Period.

[Chimera]

"hey baby, when we take our trip, i would like to spend a weekend with an ex-fug. do you mind?"

Why has that conversation even gotten far enough along to be a question in the huddle?

[Dex]

fug that.