Would you become romantically involved with someone that has an infant?

[stirs]

A lot goes into dating, a lot more goes into dating a family.

If you are ready to date a family and not just a girl, then, if this girl has a lot more going on than "smokin hot", then maybe so.

If you are only wanting into her pants, then walk away. More pants out there without kids and your livliehood as her dad.

[Floppin]

I saw the pic before you took it down, she is fine.

 

And your life is fuging complicated as poo Floppin from all the threads you have posted in the Lounge. lol.

 

Oh yea, i have no advice. Good luck though.

 

You're relatively knew around here so you honestly have no idea how complicated my life has been. What you've seen in the lounge in your time here only really scratches the surface. 

 

Here's another thread for some background.

 

 

My "Just got out of jail" thread has apparently been deleted....no idea why, but it preceded the one that I just linked.

[TheRumGone]

You're relatively knew around here so you honestly have no idea how complicated my life has been. What you've seen in the lounge in your time here only really scratches the surface. 

 

Here's another thread for some background.

 

 

My "Just got out of jail" thread has apparently been deleted....no idea why, but it preceded the one that I just linked.

 

I'm still confused about the story. You don't have to answer this; but a large amount of marijuana was sent to your house and somehow you got caught with it. Either you were a willing recipient of the drug or it was just some big mistake. Either way you paid a RIDICULOUS amount of money over it. How long ago did this happen? are you still paying fees or anything? How does somebody send that amount of weed to somebody else on accident, that doesn't make sense.

 

You are living with your ex-girlfriend and your daughter, you guys sleep around with other people but still live together.

 

And you are trying to get with your bosses daughter.

 

I am probably the least judgemental person you will ever meet in real life, but life should not be this stressful and complicated whether circumstances just fuged you over or you put yourself in different situations. It seems like it is a little bit of both.

 

Honestly man, I would take a time-out and reassess some things. Make sure you are being attentive to your daughter (i'm not saying you are not, i obviously have no idea). I dont know how old you are but the priority should be making your daughters life the best it can possibly be. Maybe you are doing this already like i said i have no idea, but you seem to have a lot of distractions.

 

Maybe i'm just an uninteresting square, i dunno. But this all just seems borderline ridiculous. And from all your posts you seem like a really smart guy.  I'm probably way off base here but those are my two cents.

[4Corners]

I want to see a pic of her

[Hawk]

me too...I've been thinking of relocating...so if I can get a girl, a baby, and a new job all in one package, I'm in!

[Chimera]

Haven't read the whole thread and missed the pic too.

But I just wanted to say that if the daddy is in the military, she should be getting child support and medical benefits for the infant. That kinda leads me to believe she's not looking for a baby daddy. Then again, she may be clueless and isn't getting a dime from him.

Just try a date or two and be a perfect gentleman (boss's daughter bit). By then it should be obvious what she's after - you or a paycheck.

[Hawk]

another thing to consider, and maybe I missed it...does this girl or her daddy/boss man, know about your previous run ins with the law?  if the answer is no and no, that's something to be very careful about too!

[Floppin]

another thing to consider, and maybe I missed it...does this girl or her daddy/boss man, know about your previous run ins with the law? if the answer is no and no, that's something to be very careful about too!

Her mom is my boss and yes she does.

[Hawk]

that's a big help than for sure.  I'd say go for it.  The baby part wouldn't bother me in even the least.  If your boss, her mom, and you have a decent relationship as it is, this can't hurt, in my opinion!  Unless you fuvk her over of course, then you are single and unemployed at the same time!!!

[Hawk]

one more thing...I didn't get to see the picture as I stated before...but...if she's 22, how old is the mom?  is she single?  I heard she's hot...maybe I could be your new daddy?!!!!

[Davidson Deac II]

If you like her, date her.  Its as simple is that.  If she turns out crazy though, be prepared to find another job.  :)

 

[TheRed]

Just slip her the meat and see what happens. You only live once.

[Hawk]

hey hey hey....that's my potential future step daughter you are talking about there...you watch your mouth young man!

[Big A]

My "Just got out of jail" thread has apparently been deleted....no idea why, but it preceded the one that I just linked.

Here ya go: