Some times it's better the be the bad guy and say NO (Personal Retrospect)

[Doc Holiday]

The answer to that question is the part that really pisses me off. Lots of things, most of which were bad decisions on their part. Like helping out my sister because she was married to a deadbeat. Or paying a family friend to install HVAC, and then finding out he did subtandard work. Unfortunately, for him and them, he is dead now, so they can't sue him. And my sister divorced the guy and she now has to live with my parents taking care of them, so maybe things will get a little better for them.

just keep reminding yourself that this is only temporary and this moment in time too will pass, it's part of what helped me keep my sanity going through it all, many people get caught up with how bad the moment is and don't realize that it's just a temporary moment in time... That sucks

[Hawk]

family...they can rock but they can suck bad sometimes too!