Well, I feel like a failure even though I shouldn't...

[thatlookseasy]

Like others said, its not a big deal. There are plenty of ways to make friends as long as you're willing to get out of your room and go do things. Go play basketball, join a club, find a good smoke spot, you'll meet people

The sorostitutes are overrated anyways, most are boring and just looking to get that MRS degree

[Kurb]

Athletic clubs are actually a great way to meet folks.

Did no one you knew go to UT as well?

Im sure you could find tons of social clubs that are interested in the same things you.

[Doc Holiday]

1. Go to college at the beach with 67% females.

2. Wander to every party you feel like going to.

3. ??????

4. Profit.

collage of charleston? If you don't get laid by a hottie there you are gay!

[Mrs Pantherfan]

If you cannot score some tail at UT...you're doing something wrong :)

[Scrumtrilescent]

Tooths optional.

[Floppin]

I grew up in a college town. Trust me when I say that being a part of a fraternity is not required to be able to enjoy the college party/social scene.

[Guest]

Tooths optional.

Teeths. Who needs em.

[TNPanther]

If you cannot score some tail at UT...you're doing something wrong :)

I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.

[Mrs Pantherfan]

I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.

I know what you mean..good luck to you..please don't let it bother you too much...there are plenty of people out there

[Kurb]

I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.

Then do that.

You don't need a title or be a member of something.

Do you want to determine who you are or do you want someone else to do it ?

[Floppin]

I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.

Focus on your education, the identity that you build through it eventually will far outweigh any social identity that a fraternity will provide. Enjoy college life and party to your hearts content, but make college what college is supposed to be about - your education pursuant to a better life for yourself.

[mmmbeans]

multi.

[mmmbeans]

I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.

without trying to sound condescending... joining a frat isn't really establishing an identity for yourself, it's taking on someone else's identity. Whether that's the identity you want is a different story...

you get to be an adult now... any lingering high-school perspective only hurts you from here on out.

[Scrumtrilescent]

True. I went to undergrad as a shy, blonde female. Then I really found myself.