I Need Huddle Relationship Advice

[davos]

It sounds like she must be quite the catch and like many who are, there are a handful of guys trying to play the long game with her once you two are done. Also, she's most likely enjoying the attention especially given you are not in the same area. Going through her phone is bad and now that you told her you did so, will have to pay the consequences.

Doesn't sound like there's much transparency in the relationship and an overall lack of trust. Pretty big red flags. Y'all are just gonna have to talk things through and see what's up. Communication is everything. Unless you're really feeling it, this should be a stepping stone type deal. No use wasting either of y'all's time unless you think there's something there.

[stirs]

First bad move--going through her phone

Next bad move--coming here for advice.

You are O for 2. I think she should run and never look back

[pstall]

ahh, kids in love. haha

as many said not a good move on checking the phone. i think the deal with texting and fb etc is its made people so lazy in relationships or even flirting. kills the game totally.

at 22 i totally enjoyed my freedom and i suggest you do the same. don't bog yourself down with feeling like you HAVE to have a gf. don't be a scuzz either and hook up with any chick you see tho.

the next month you will see if she is right for you or not. but i can tell you you are not at the top of the list. you are ON the list, but not at the top of hers. sorry man.

but focus on just having fun and kicking your classes butt and enjoy life and and the girls will flock to you.

like i have said before. focus on the cake, you get the candles. focus on the candles, you ALWAYS get the cake.

[PhillyB]

you've been with her since age 15?

this explains a lot.

[Seal (SmittyIsOurSavior)]

I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm sure you're a nice guy, and if she chose the nice guy in you to begin with, then she's probably over that "bad guy" douche phase that girls seem to eternally hang around.

[Kurb]

you've been with her since age 15?

this explains a lot.

I didn't even realize

That changes a lot

[The Saltman]

The best possible advice I can give is to become gay, like me.

Trust me things are much easier this way.

Wait did I just type what I was thinking in my head but didnt really mean to type it'?

Farkkkkk!!

[CarolinaNCSU]

Yeah I mean there is obviously a lot to the story I can't tell or even explain. And we've known each other/hung out since early in high school, but we were never "official" until last year and dated other people in between.

Anyway as an update, she's obviously still pissed but we talked last night and got it all out on the table. She knows I hate the dude and said she won't let him keep saying the same things. I obviously know I screwed up and we've got to rebuild the trust yada yada. And yes, I know I'm 22 and relationships at my age, especially "serious" ones, can be silly. At the same time, they are learning experiences that may lead to something, so I try not to screw them up totally.

[4Corners]

Stop being a pussy and Leave her dude there are plenty of fish in the sea

[Zcustom]

Move on, now.

Listen to the guy who dated the same girl from 17-22 and regretted it bigtime.

Then again, this is the problem with kids though, they have to experience it themselves. What's that quote again?

"the smart man learns from his mistakes, but the really smart man learns from others"

[Kurb]

Do what feels riight dude. Wall yo path

[4Corners]

While your at home moping around - she's out going to pound town dude. Probably with one of your friends. Grow a pair and leave her. She'll come crawling back for some weiner when she's drunk.

[Hawk]

unless I missed something...you dated, broke up and she slept with baseball boy...now you are back together and they are still texting each other????

if this is correct...if it's me...I'm out for sure.

you looked at her phone so obviously there is a trust issue. No trust = no real relationship, move on!

[thefuzz]

unless I missed something...you dated, broke up and she slept with baseball boy...now you are back together and they are still texting each other????

if this is correct...if it's me...I'm out for sure.

you looked at her phone so obviously there is a trust issue. No trust = no real relationship, move on!

But he didn't even cum inside of her....