Real Cheating

[KBRed]

Sorry to bump this but just updating. So, after a week of boozing with friends I was feeling better and went back home thinking I could just avoid and stay away. TBH, after six years I had to hear her out. She was sayinghow she made a mistake and found out thru this that I was genuine...blah, blah, blah.

I fell for it. Things were perfect for 5 days, then a slight controversary turned to a complete 180 the next few days. Anyway, she's texting me all day at work like normal. I even pick out a suit for a wedding she liked with her help thru texts. She tells me she wants to go out with friends but couldn't tell me where. After I question every lie she throws out, she tells me she's going to get her earrings, which I knew about from him at a fancy restaurant. 'should I go, what do you think, he wouldn't bring them to work'. I said you already made your decision, but a fuging parking lot would suffice.

Anyway, she's currently out with him. She texted me while I was there...I love you. My response: lol, just stop.

I called a good friend of mine from college that I keep in touch with. She just broke up with her bf because he cheated. Looking forward to what the future holds.

It's crazy how some of your advice was dead on. Don't sleep on the huddle. (wait, that didn't come out right)

I'm truly happy knowing b/c I questioned my thoughts everyday.

[pstall]

The huddle is THE go to place for everything. It's the Wal Mart of wisdom.

[CarolinaKid704]

I personally trust the huddle on relationship and haiku poetry advice. Years later, my house smells of black panther and rich mahogany. cheers to you sir.

[Ja Rhule]

Funny thing is... If they'll date, she will cheat on his ass sooner or later as well. ;)

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Your ex is a player and she like's to have you around as security blanket in case her new pal ditches her she will run straight back to you until she finds someone else. I hate those types of women... they usually not all right in the head. Don't be surprise if your ex will give you the best sex and amazing blow jobs... she don't really mean it, she just don't want other girls to have you. You are like a possession to her. Trust me, I know from experience. I had to calls cops on my ex and she still stalked me.

[Chimera]

Funny thing is... If they'll date, she will cheat on his ass sooner or later as well. ;)

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Your ex is a player and she like's to have you around as security blanket in case her new pal ditches her she will run straight back to you until she finds someone else. I hate those types of women... they usually not all right in the head. Don't be surprise if your ex will give you the best sex and amazing blow jobs... she don't really mean it, she just don't want other girls to have you. You are like a possession to her. Trust me, I know from experience. I had to calls cops on my ex and she still stalked me.

wow... i thought i've had some clingers

nothing like that though

[Davidson Deac II]

Funny thing is... If they'll date, she will cheat on his ass sooner or later as well. ;)

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Don't know if I agree with that. I have known several who cheated when they were young, but matured as they got older.

[Chimera]

Don't know if I agree with that. I have known several who cheated when they were young, but matured as they got older.

they just learned to not get caught.

[Ja Rhule]

Don't know if I agree with that. I have known several who cheated when they were young, but matured as they got older.

Well, she's 26 and she does that so I don't know how much growing up she got left.

[Guest]

Sorry to bump this but just updating. So, after a week of boozing with friends I was feeling better and went back home thinking I could just avoid and stay away. TBH, after six years I had to hear her out. She was sayinghow she made a mistake and found out thru this that I was genuine...blah, blah, blah.

I fell for it. Things were perfect for 5 days, then a slight controversary turned to a complete 180 the next few days. Anyway, she's texting me all day at work like normal. I even pick out a suit for a wedding she liked with her help thru texts. She tells me she wants to go out with friends but couldn't tell me where. After I question every lie she throws out, she tells me she's going to get her earrings, which I knew about from him at a fancy restaurant. 'should I go, what do you think, he wouldn't bring them to work'. I said you already made your decision, but a fuging parking lot would suffice.

Anyway, she's currently out with him. She texted me while I was there...I love you. My response: lol, just stop.

I called a good friend of mine from college that I keep in touch with. She just broke up with her bf because he cheated. Looking forward to what the future holds.

It's crazy how some of your advice was dead on. Don't sleep on the huddle. (wait, that didn't come out right)

I'm truly happy knowing b/c I questioned my thoughts everyday.

Good for you man, time to move on, and move in on another piece. Good luck!

[Darth Biscuit]

KB, glad to see you're moving on man... I know it's been 6 years, but it's definitely time to get on with it... she's just playing with you now. Looks like you handled it well... good luck!

[Guest]

KB, here you go...

[CRA]

2 kinds of people in the world.

Those who cheat.

Those who don't.

It isn't complicated.

* there is also a sub group of those who don't cheat....and they are the ones who don't cheat and are naive and foolish enough to believe a cheater wouldn't do it again.

[JakeFlake]

You did the right thing. Go find someone else and throw her stuff out of the apartment.

[thefuzz]

Wow on her ballsy move to meet him at a nice restaurant, and to lie to you about it before hand.

You sir had a real doozie on your hands.

I hope that you wore a rubber on those 5 days where things were back to normal.