My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me - For Good.

[Wither]

Man the fug up and get on with your life.

As callous as that sounds that’s what’s at the bottom of all of the platitudes about keeping your mind off of it.

She wasn’t the right one or at the very least not at the right time.

You can’t change that.

Stop letting it dictate how you feel.

Pick yourself up, rub some dirt on it, move on.

I swear I thought that said something about rubbing something else.

Why all the hate on this girl....

Move on and put her behind you. Don't lose sight of your schoolwork but you can be pissed/grieve whatever but only for like two weeks. get your poo together. 7 billion people in the world

It definitely could be something our friend here did wrong.

You'll find something else to screw with. However, it will be a more difficult experience to find someone you really want to spend a lot of time with. And you probably wouldn't have been able to stand this chick if you had spent more time with her anyway.

[ladypanther]

Time will help. Sorry that happened. Later you will be glad it happened...you deserve better.

So, in the meantime....don't do anything stupid, go to class, spend time with friends. Do something physical...workout, run, play basketball, etc.

Hope you feel better soon.

[PantherBrew]

One day you will thank God that she broke up with you.

In the immortal words of Thin Lizzy, "If that chick don't wanna go, forget her"

Believe me, happened to me.

Sometimes, the best gifts of your life are unanswered prayers.

[CarolinaAllDay]

Haha

[Mvp2014]

broke up over text? You're better off

[Khaki Lackey]

My advice is : just don't be pathetic. I'm not saying, "man up, son!" I know you can't help how you feel, but try not to come off pathetic to other girls. Girls can't stand pathetic. And for God's sake, don't let this affect your grades. Your degree is way more important.

[MadHatter]

Time will help. Sorry that happened. Later you will be glad it happened...you deserve better.

So, in the meantime....don't do anything stupid, go to class, spend time with friends. Do something physical...workout, run, play basketball, etc.

Hope you feel better soon.

^^^Best advice yet.

Only thing that will help is the passing of time. Get on with your life....it will get easier as each day passes.

[TNPanther]

Thanks guys. Today has been a little better. I ate for the first time since Sunday and I plan to have fun tonight at our fraternity's mixer party. With that being said, I'm still in a lot of pain. I have a lot of good friends who are helping me through but it's still tough to wake up and realize that she's gone.

I'll probably go for a long drive in the Smoky Mountains just to forget about things. Reading the funny posts on these boards from guys like Jangler and Southcak and many others has helped too.

[Brooklyn Bully]

WTF? I just speed scrolled through this thread and there are no nudes of your ex posted yet! Get with the program.

[Ivan The Awesome]

I can't breathe from all the estrogen in this thread...

:P

[Jangler]

[Brokenbad]

Just think of all the things about her that you did not like, and be glad you do not have to deal with them anymore.

Jealousy and revenge do you no good here, it is also pathetic. Forget she ever existed.

Do not send her anything in a vengeful way and do not bother to contact her again, it only gives her a little satisfaction of knowing that she tore your heart out, plus it makes you look psycho, plus it is utterly pathetic.

Delete her from your phone of other social media connections. Make sure to forget she ever existed. Looking at pictures of her will only bring you down more.

Do things that are exciting to you as well. Do not listen to "The Script" or any heartbreak songs. Instead, pick out your favorite fast paced jams and rock out.

Whatever you do, make not contacting her or looking at pictures of her a priority. Erase any contact methods with her that you have.

She will never contact you again, do not waste your time trying to contact her because it would just be a nuisance to her. At this point, there is no "winning her back" because you never actually "lost" her. "Losing" her is when you goof up and have to earn her trust again. Her dumping you is a decision she made that she will not "come around" about, especially if you are blowing up her phone and being a puppy dog. Do not let me mislead you, she has moved on and has no more interest. Forget she exists and do some fun things.