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There Are Only 3 Kinds of People in Your Life


KaseKlosed

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There are 3 kinds of people in your life!

Those who leave you alone!

Those who help you!

Those who hurt you!

Those who leave you alone see dealing with your suffering as a nuisance or inconvenience, and prefer to keep their distance in order to feel better themselves. Those who help you have the strength and the awareness to do more with your suffering than you are able to deal with yourself. Those who hurt you want the situation to stay the same because they do not have your well being at heart.

Asses people solely how they relate to your difficulties and count how many you have in your life, this is not the same as counting friends and family members. I will no longer bring my issues to someone who ignores me, b/c its not good for them or for me. They do not want to help so I will not ask them to. I will share my problems with those who want to help me, I will not reject offers of genuine assistance due to pride, insecurity or doubt. I will ask these people to join me in my HEALING (not a negative enabler), and become a bigger part of my life I will put a distance between those who want to hurt me, I will not confront them, and I will not let them be the cause of my self pity or guilt trip them but I cannot afford their toxic effect on me and if that means keeping my distance I will.

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Gonna get flamed for this post probably, but I kept reading "me," "my," and "I" over and over again in the OP. Gotta ask this Clarie chick exactly what kind of person she is. Seems only concerned with what others can do for her and not what she can do herself.

Just my worthless .02 cents here. Take it for whatever you please.

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Asses people solely how they relate to your difficulties and count how many you have in your life, this is not the same as counting friends and family members.

I might be more appreciative of this post if I had some idea of exactly how how one "asses" people :confused:

(to my credit, I know better than to ask for explanations from this crowd) :skep:

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The thing that really gets me about this thread is that there were two people on here who knew who Claire was.

I have never heard of her, honestly. I have, however, been privy to enough KK posts to know that he didn't come up with what he posted. So I copied and pasted it into google. Voila! Word for word. :lol:

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