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So I am juggling 2 girls. Strictly sexual. Both have stated that they don't mind, but they don't want to be "competing" with other women, as I am the only guy they're fuging with (neither of those conversations were started by me...they like pillow-talk, apparently). UNCP isn't necessarily the largest campus ever, and I had a close call with them tonight.

Any strategies for keeping this from blowing up in my face? Do I turn one away and tell her we should keep it to a verbal friendship so that I guarantee the other? Would really hate to have dry nights in my future. :(

Side note: I realize that this is a good problem to have.

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lymelizzard Newbie

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So I am juggling 2 girls. Strictly sexual. Both have stated that they don't mind, but they don't want to be "competing" with other women, as I am the only guy they're fuging with (neither of those conversations were started by me...they like pillow-talk, apparently). UNCP isn't necessarily the largest campus ever, and I had a close call with them tonight.

Any strategies for keeping this from blowing up in my face? Do I turn one away and tell her we should keep it to a verbal friendship so that I guarantee the other? Would really hate to have dry nights in my future. :(

Side note: I realize that this is a good problem to have.

pIcS?

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RedMage138 Newbie

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So I am juggling 2 girls. Strictly sexual. Both have stated that they don't mind, but they don't want to be "competing" with other women, as I am the only guy they're fuging with (neither of those conversations were started by me...they like pillow-talk, apparently). UNCP isn't necessarily the largest campus ever, and I had a close call with them tonight.

Any strategies for keeping this from blowing up in my face? Do I turn one away and tell her we should keep it to a verbal friendship so that I guarantee the other? Would really hate to have dry nights in my future. :(

Side note: I realize that this is a good problem to have.

Bottom line, if you keep fuging them both it will eventually blow up in your face. If you want to salvage a relationship with one of them then you need to pick one and run with it. If you don't care about the future with either then enjoy the present but be prepared for the fallout.

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I have a hard time thinking you are their only guy. They are floating some trial ballons to see your reaction. It might seem like Cinemax now but it can have long lasting effects. Trust issues not withstanding. I prefer vip treatment myself because its just less stress and drama. Take this from a retired player. Lol

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LifeisaGarden Newbie

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I don't think you're a foolish jerk. However I do think you need to either pick one or come clean to them both. I've been in a similar situation before I met my husband. I ended up picking the guy that was the least crazy. It worked out for a while and then I moved on eventually. Later I met the one I married.

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