Amber Cole story (didn't see it posted yet)

[sunbunny]

It worked for Kim Kardashian.

[chef17]

  MrTouchdown said:

I don't contribute to the glorification of idiots.

You may not but plenty of other idiots will.

[chef17]

This is how some girl reacted. Seems crazy to me.

[4Corners]

  sunbunny said:

It worked for Kim Kardashian.

Yeah if she fugs enough athletes she'd eventually come famous. That whole family is famous for absolutely nothing and I wish they would go away.

$100 that her and that boys marriage don't last a year.

[4Corners]

  chef17 said:

You may not but plenty of other idiots will.

Especially in the US of A. SMH.

[GritsRgreat]

Idk, i feel bad for her in away and in another way i don't. I know that sounds like a cop out but i know tons of girls who give out BJs and brag about it all the time. And i also know girls who were tricked and lied to by some fool who just used her ass. I don't really know the situation but if she's the school BJ queen than i got no sympathy.

[sunbunny]

Even if she's the school's bj queen, she has problems that have led up to it. Probably self esteem/self respect issues. Either way, I feel bad for her.

[charlotte49er]

  Camdemonium said:

Who here hasn't gotten a BJ in the back of class while the substitute teacher is showing a movie?

I didn't! :mad:

Of course, I went to high school so long ago, that Pluto was still a planet! And there were 2 kinds of girls. Those you dated and had sex with, and those you dated and married.

YouTube removed the Law & Order episode with Hayden Panetttiere giving head. :mad:

I still remember her line. "What's the big deal? It's not like we were having sex."

[chef17]

  GritsRgreat said:

Idk, i feel bad for her in away and in another way i don't. I know that sounds like a cop out but i know tons of girls who give out BJs and brag about it all the time. And i also know girls who were tricked and lied to by some fool who just used her ass. I don't really know the situation but if she's the school BJ queen than i got no sympathy.

From what I read it was her ex boyfriend who she loved but he broke her heart so she did it trying to get back with him.

Now I understand people lie and all but

1. He already broke up with you. That leaves A. Even if he took her back no reason to think he wouldn't do it again. and B. He obviously didn't care too much for her.

2. He is going to take you back because you gave him head? That doesn't even sound believable IMO

3. Dude sounds like a POS anyway.

Those things to me just lead to stupidity. I can't feel bad for that, whether he lied or not.

[GritsRgreat]

I guess Sunbunny, but some girls just do it for kicks.

[sunbunny]

  chef17 said:

From what I read it was her ex boyfriend who she loved but he broke her heart so she did it trying to get back with him.

Now I understand people lie and all but

1. He already broke up with you. That leaves A. Even if he took her back no reason to think he wouldn't do it again. and B. He obviously didn't care too much for her.

2. He is going to take you back because you gave him head? That doesn't even sound believable IMO

3. Dude sounds like a POS anyway.

Those things to me just lead to stupidity. I can't feel bad for that, whether he lied or not.

Which all goes back to self esteem/self respect issues. She was so desperate for his attention.... I don't know. All of my daughter's friends are 13/14. You'd be surprised how some of them think.

[GritsRgreat]

  chef17 said:

From what I read it was her ex boyfriend who she loved but he broke her heart so she did it trying to get back with him.

Now I understand people lie and all but

1. He already broke up with you. That leaves A. Even if he took her back no reason to think he wouldn't do it again. and B. He obviously didn't care too much for her.

2. He is going to take you back because you gave him head? That doesn't even sound believable IMO

3. Dude sounds like a POS anyway.

Those things to me just lead to stupidity. I can't feel bad for that, whether he lied or not.

If thats the case he's a punk ass motherfuger who has some bad Karma coming his way. Hopefully the clap.

[Seal (SmittyIsOurSavior)]

[chef17]

  sunbunny said:

Which all goes back to self esteem/self respect issues. She was so desperate for his attention.... I don't know. All of my daughter's friends are 13/14. You'd be surprised how some of them think.

I've always been a person with above average intelligence so I never understood why people do things that are clearly stupid. I don't understand the thinking that tells you a boy who broke up with you will just change because you gave him oral. And this sounds bad but IMO a stupid decision is a stupid decision, no matter what the reasons are behind it. Articles on it feel as you do, that it was self esteem issues that caused this. Not trying to be a dick but to me that doesn't change anything. At the end of the day she did something stupid and has to deal with the consequences. I can't feel bad for that.

  GritsRgreat said:

If thats the case he's a punk ass motherfuger who has some bad Karma coming his way. Hopefully the clap.

I definitely agree. Dude is a bitch for taking advantage of her. But her being 14, which I consider old enough to understand the situation, I think she still deserves some of the blame