Parenting Question

[Kettle]

to clarify....it wasn't my yard. it was a community area the kid crapped in. the neighborhood has a pool with a clubhouse, and a nearby playground and grilling shelter. the kid was in the grass between all those things. there are bathrooms at the pool too so the mom could have done something before the deuce was dropped if she had been paying more attention to the kid.

[Cat]

to clarify....it wasn't my yard. it was a community area the kid crapped in. the neighborhood has a pool with a clubhouse, and a nearby playground and grilling shelter. the kid was in the grass between all those things. there are bathrooms at the pool too so the mom could have done something before the deuce was dropped if she had been paying more attention to the kid.

It's like a fuging dog. Actually people with dogs at least scoop it up...typically.

[NCstoner420]

You have to talk to the parents, he is just a child and without proper parenting he will have no guidance. It is up to you how you handle it, you can be nice or you can be stern about it. I had a friend who came over to my house with his new girlfriend and she had a four year old. The kid was bad, wouldn't listen to her and then started throwing toy cars around the living room. I went up to her and said that my kids do not throw things in the house and her kid will not throw things in the house, she never came back over and it really didn't bother me either way.

[CLTPanther]

Bitch slap the parents

[Kettle]

i pick up my dogs poop.

[g5jamz]

http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/81903656/

Next time his kid poops in yard...do this.

[Bronn]

It is pretty easy to choke slam a 3 year old, you know...

But yeah, I feel you on this whole situation...

We have a couple friends that have a 4 year old that they don't discipline. We dread having them come over because he's all over the place, acts more baby-ish than our 1 year old, and they make no real attempt at controlling him. It is to the point where I'll say something if they don't, and then they'll usually catch on and reinforce what I'm saying... You could always try that...

As far as shitting in the yard... That is totally unacceptable... Rub his nose in it next time to teach him a lesson...

[CRA]

I have a 7 month old and he has been known to still a pacifer or two. It happens. Just take it out of his mouth, tell him no(he has no clue though), and make sure the other parent knows that one is now dirty.

You can't really stop that stuff imo

[Kettle]

I have a 7 month old and he has been known to still a pacifer or two. It happens. Just take it out of his mouth, tell him no(he has no clue though), and make sure the other parent knows that one is now dirty.

You can't really stop that stuff imo

this is why spanking is more effective. it doesn't take much. a little slap on the back of the hand. the kid may get the point the first time, or it may take 3 or 4. but they'll get the point. unlike being all soft saying no no, we don't do that. a kid that young just hears blah blah blah, and continues doing whatever they were.

[Kettle]

i'm wondering how they'd react if i just linked them to this thread

[Floppin]

Just hang out with us more. I don't let my daughter act like that, she's at the age where the throws fits, but she can scream her head off all she wants, I just ignore it and she stops. That kind of behavior is just for attention at that age. Kids need discipline, and my daughter plays and gets my attention all day long so she's not starved. I'm not above spanking her either if she repeatedly misbehaves, or tests my limits. Nothing brutal, just a little pop on the bottom.

[Floppin]

this is why spanking is more effective. it doesn't take much. a little slap on the back of the hand. the kid may get the point the first time, or it may take 3 or 4. but they'll get the point. unlike being all soft saying no no, we don't do that. a kid that young just hears blah blah blah, and continues doing whatever they were.

Yeah, at that age you have to say no AND do something else, so the child associates No with bad. A little pop will do, nothing that really hurts, but that just gets their attention to the word NO.

[Kettle]

i owe floppin rep. i have given out to much in the past 24 hours.

[Mrs Pantherfan]

there is a HUGE difference between spanking and beating IMHO...

this time-out-only bullsh*t is why the county is going to sh*t :)

I got spanked..I remember getting my mouth washed out with soap too...and I survived..