Parenting Question

[Mvp2014]

Wow! That is nasty. I would never let that kid around my house.

[4Corners]

nah dude it's really awesome the kid uses the bathroom outside and makes you pick it up

[Kettle]

MY son is 3, and we are having trouble with him not listening at school and hitting. Now I'll be honest, I am 24, and I sometimes play rough with him, cause hes my little guy and he likes iron man, the avengers, transformers etc etc. We are seeing the rough-housing transitioning into him doing that at school or with friends. I no longer play that rough with him, he asks why, i tell him i can't until he learns that WE can only do that cause I am daddy and "im big and strong" (thats what i tell him lol)

Well its working, hes been great in school recently, and things are better. The parents of that 3 year old not showing any type of care in the world is SMH-worthy. I get mortified if my son does anything he's not supposed to do in public, and I make sure he knows about it. I believe in decipline as well, and spanking as well. I know for a fact it straightened my ass up when my mom would pop my face.

I think for you, personally, the only thing you can do, is not invite them over anymore. Telling them how to raise their kid isnt your place imo. Just don't invite them to hang anymore and you'll be golden.

I don't believe in hitting the face. My spankings were always on the butt. Maybe the legs if I was running away. They were never hard enough to leave any kind of mark either. I was very young when I got my first one, and I never got into any trouble at pre-school. It got to where all my dad had to do was give me a look.

I'm thinking no more invites for them, but it really sucks cuz we get along with them otherwise. Their kids just always make things stressful.

[4Corners]

wow you hit your kids? nice parenting

[Kettle]

i don't hit my kid. she is only 6 months old. there will come a time though when i will. after i have told her repeatedly to stop whatever she is doing.

MrTD is a douche.

[The Saltman]

MrTD is a douche.

you just figure that out?

(waits for him to report my post)

[Chimera]

wtf kind of tard leaves a flaming pile of muddy doo doo in a park where kids are playing? i hope her 3 year old ran through it and tracked it all through her house.

i can't believe how ignorant some people can be. i'm not sure i'd want my kid to have the pacifier after the 9 month old stole it. who knows when the last time his/her hands were washed. don't invite them over. don't associate with them. just rid yourself of their filth.

what does their home look like? *gag* don't answer...

[Chimera]

you just figure that out?

(waits for him to report my post)

keep waiting.

[The Saltman]

being able to edit other peoples posts FTW

[Chimera]

being able to edit other peoples posts FTW

i'm sending hank jr. and larry the cable guy to your place...

[car5nc]

Just stay away from those kids. As far as a 3yr old boy can't be controlled. Umm..wrong. A kid that old is old enough to be taught what is right and wrong behavior.Parents just lack the stones to do it because it's harder than turning a blind eye to it. Crapping on the lawn, are you kidding me?!!

[bLACKpANTHER]

#1 - I wouldnt complain to my wife- I would say look, this is not going to continue. We are better than this and we dont want that type of action rubbing off onto our children.

IMO, get new friends- AND if wife has problem with letting go of "such good friends":rolleyes: - then she will have no problem when you go talk to the other dad and explain the problem you have with the situation.

IMHO- there arent such things as "good enough friends" that will come between me and the way i want to raise my kids

[Kettle]

#1 - I wouldnt complain to my wife- I would say look, this is not going to continue. We are better than this and we dont want that type of action rubbing off onto our children.

IMO, get new friends- AND if wife has problem with letting go of "such good friends":rolleyes: - then she will have no problem when you go talk to the other dad and explain the problem you have with the situation.

IMHO- there arent such things as "good enough friends" that will come between me and the way i want to raise my kids

we aren't that attached to these people i don't think. it took forever to get the wives to hang out, and it was just me and the dad. we both had bikes. we both sold them when kids came along. we both now surf. the women are very different from one another, and have only gotten together because they are mothers.

my wife doesn't have a lot of friends since she became a mother though, so it was nice for her to have anyone to hang out with.

[Henne Given Sunday]

I don't believe in hitting the face. My spankings were always on the butt. Maybe the legs if I was running away. They were never hard enough to leave any kind of mark either. I was very young when I got my first one, and I never got into any trouble at pre-school. It got to where all my dad had to do was give me a look.

I'm thinking no more invites for them, but it really sucks cuz we get along with them otherwise. Their kids just always make things stressful.

Ya I don't hit my son in the face, his ass is fair game, but my mom, she made my face uglier than it is a few times lol