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UPDATE.....On first date for PC :P

pantherschic

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I just got out of a twenty year marriage not looking for commitment again no time soon...............

Just out of curiosity, does he know that yer like, way off the commitment train?

I only ask because I know more guys than you'd think that are really eager to head in that direction. Dudes can be weird like that.

If you haven't made it clear that getting serious or exclusivity anytime soon is a deal breaker, you should. That way, if he does start trying to jump the gun, you've got it on record.

Just make sure you communicate things like this early and VERY clearly. That'd be my biggest piece of advice. Don't make him do ANY guesswork.

(NOTE: This is coming from someone who doesn't believe in traditional marriage. My wife and I only got married because it makes legal/end of life issues, emergency medical decisions, and similar things infinitely easier. Also, we got married in Vegas after spending all night in a strip club spending hundreds of dollars on titties and rum.)

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Just out of curiosity, does he know that yer like, way off the commitment train?

I only ask because I know more guys than you'd think that are really eager to head in that direction. Dudes can be weird like that.

If you haven't made it clear that getting serious or exclusivity anytime soon is a deal breaker, you should. That way, if he does start trying to jump the gun, you've got it on record.

Just make sure you communicate things like this early and VERY clearly. That'd be my biggest piece of advice. Don't make him do ANY guesswork.

then you don't waste your time or his

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Just out of curiosity, does he know that yer like, way off the commitment train?

I only ask because I know more guys than you'd think that are really eager to head in that direction. Dudes can be weird like that.

If you haven't made it clear that getting serious or exclusivity anytime soon is a deal breaker, you should. That way, if he does start trying to jump the gun, you've got it on record.

Just make sure you communicate things like this early and VERY clearly. That'd be my biggest piece of advice. Don't make him do ANY guesswork.

(NOTE: This is coming from someone who doesn't believe in traditional marriage. My wife and I only got married because it makes legal/end of life issues, emergency medical decisions, and similar things infinitely easier. Also, we got married in Vegas after spending all night in a strip club spending hundreds of dollars on titties and rum.)

Yes, I made that extremely clear several times over the past 2.5 months....also, I told him I need to find myself before I get serious with anyone. Been married since I was 18 and now 39 I am going to find out who I am first, I am going to date like a should have dated the first time, I met my ex when I was 16, we had 23 years total in this and poof gone....... not going to be that dumb again.

Good Sound Advice, Thanks!!

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he's the dude who bought the chick flowers before ever meeting her...he'd more than likely break down and crumble should she just bang him for the fun of it

Yeah, you are right Mrs. Pantherfan...... I kinda got that feelin thats why I didn't go there, cause I am going to enjoy myself for a while before I settle back down if ever, LOL

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This thread makes me feel grateful for not having to deal with the dating scene anymore.

Glad the date was good and didn't involve trunks or firearms.

or duct tape. Thirded.

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there is a type of guy who you can tell 50 times you're not looking for anything serious and he'll be the 1st one to take "I need to find myself first" to mean "If I wait 6 months, she'll come around to the idea.."

usually they give flowers to women they never met..

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