Need help! 1st date in over twenty years.....

[GritsRgreat]

I will try not to go down that road, Grits good advice~~ Think his jealousy started when several of his buddies thought I was his sister, I was amused he wasn't.....LOL

I believe it!

[GritsRgreat]

:lol:

wait

I'm never serious.

[pantherschic]

I believe it!

Now you know us "G.R.I.T.S" age gracefully LOL

[GritsRgreat]

Now you know us "G.R.I.T.S" age gracefully LOL

;) You have me figured out.

[mr beauxjangles]

I'd suggest going to a walkable neighborhood where you have dining options, different bars, shops, and plenty of other people for people-watching. Give yourself choices so that if you get yourself intoa restaurant and the environment is too stuffy or you want to change the pace, you can say "let's get out of here and go next door" or "let's go see if there's someplace that isn't so dead down the street." point is, like i said, give yourself (and him) some options over the course of the evening. nothing worse than going on a date somewhere and there is no logical next step to take the evening (if you want to keep hanging out but don't want to have the "want to go to my place" conversation yet).

edit: i live in atlanta and am not that familiar with all the neighborhoods in charlotte, otherwise i'd give you specific suggestions

[pantherschic]

I'd suggest going to a walkable neighborhood where you have dining options, different bars, shops, and plenty of other people for people-watching. Give yourself choices so that if you get yourself intoa restaurant and the environment is too stuffy or you want to change the pace, you can say "let's get out of here and go next door" or "let's go see if there's someplace that isn't so dead down the street." point is, like i said, give yourself (and him) some options over the course of the evening. nothing worse than going on a date somewhere and there is no logical next step to take the evening (if you want to keep hanging out but don't want to have the "want to go to my place" conversation yet).

edit: i live in atlanta and am not that familiar with all the neighborhoods in charlotte, otherwise i'd give you specific suggestions

Thanks great advice

[Panthro]

Head to Baxter in Ft Mill. Forget meeting in Charlotte.

Eat dinner and then go get some ice cream.

[g5jamz]

I say start off with something exciting.

Like a nice Artisan 3-cheese bread. Add a little smoked turkey, smoked bacon, and smoked cheddar and garnish to his liking. How fast you can make it determines how the night goes.

[Hawk]

You charge women to give you BJs? Wow, you must have a nice one.

no no....he meant he can only offer her 50% of a real peni!!!!

[Hawk]

PC....I have your perfect first date....ready?

dump his ass and come to my place. added bonus, I hate the falcons as much as you do!

[ThPantherFan]

If you get to Asheville this Friday night come by Olive or Twist and listen to some good Motown, Soul and Blues music. Motownblue will be playing there. Wave to the bassman, you may know him.:)

[4Corners]

Heart shaped tub at the Ascott Inn is always a winner.

I drove past there yesterday and they were gutting the entire establishment.

[Hawk]

discount!

[TheRealDeal]

My daughter hated it when i went out on dates too. Mostly because they were with her friends from school.....

I can't wait to grow up and date my daughter's friends.