Need help! 1st date in over twenty years.....

[pantherschic]

OK, I am going out this weekend this will be my first date since my husband and I separated in March, we were married twenty years.

I am supposed to pick something fun to do in the Charlotte area, he is coming up hear from SC..........problem is I am not in Charlotte enough to know much about the clubs, restaurants, or fun places to go........any suggestions, nice restaurants, etc.

I have not got a clue how to "date" anymore been married for so long, LOL

Thanks In Advance

PC

[Hairless Cat]

dont know- I havent been o one for a few years myself- good luck

[Guest]

went on my first date in 20 years a few years ago. Its no biggie. Go to dinner someplace. Lots of places to choose from, depending on which side of town you're on.

[boo7382]

Depends on how much $$ he is willing to spend...

you don't wanna pick a nice restaurant and have him be a cheap ass.

Also, I am not a very expensive date, so maybe Im not the best to give advice to, but a dinner at Brixx or Harper's and then a comedy show/putt putt/karaoke bar or somewhere equally interesting will do it for meh!

As long as there is beer involved.

Why don't you tell HIM to pick where to go for dinner and you can do the rest? You guys going out during the day or at night? Is he picking YOU up or are you meeting somewhere?

[GritsRgreat]

Keep it simple. Dinner, not a movie. Do you dance?

[Guest]

http://www.charlottebbqandblues.com/

The weather will be nice too. You're welcome ;)

[Jbro]

Heart shaped tub at the Ascott Inn is always a winner.

[boo7382]

http://www.charlottebbqandblues.com/

The weather will be nice too. You're welcome ;)

thank you....stealing that.

Heart shaped tub at the Ascott Inn is always a winner.

Thought that place was condemned?

[Guest]

Heart shaped tub at the Ascott Inn is always a winner.

Too late, they are demolishing it today.

[Mayor Qumiby]

Baby, I told you waffle house would be fine...although I do appreciate you effort!

[sunbunny]

http://www.charlottebbqandblues.com/

The weather will be nice too. You're welcome ;)

That sounds fun!

Good luck, pc!

[pantherschic]

Depends on how much $$ he is willing to spend...

you don't wanna pick a nice restaurant and have him be a cheap ass.

Also, I am not a very expensive date, so maybe Im not the best to give advice to, but a dinner at Brixx or Harper's and then a comedy show/putt putt/karaoke bar or somewhere equally interesting will do it for meh!

As long as there is beer involved.

Why don't you tell HIM to pick where to go for dinner and you can do the rest? You guys going out during the day or at night? Is he picking YOU up or are you meeting somewhere?

I don't like the really expensive type dates either, it will be a late evening night time date. I am meeting him at Carolina Place Mall, and we will go somewhere from there.........he said he wished there was a home game this weekend since he was going to be in town and I love the Panthers. He would take me to the game but he is a Falcons fan :( I know strike one already LOL.............

Just going to roll with it I guess.............

[GritsRgreat]

If he's from SC he's already a winner.

[boo7382]

I don't like the really expensive type dates either, it will be a late evening night time date. I am meeting him at Carolina Place Mall, and we will go somewhere from there.........he said he wished there was a home game this weekend since he was going to be in town and I love the Panthers. He would take me to the game but he is a Falcons fan :( I know strike one already LOL.............

Just going to roll with it I guess.............

its a damn good thing there isn't a game....don't wanna be seen at the game with a Falcants fan. He better have a damn good personality/sense of humor!

Late night? Go somewhere swanky and laid back....like a Basil type place where you can go have some cocktails and apps and just talk for a while without anyone bothering you.

Anyone know a place like that out near CPlace? I would imagine you don't want to be driving all the way into dt Charlotte. Sounds like it should be a pretty good "get to know you" sort of thing.

If he's smart, he will go wherever you want.

Only question is where he will be staying that night;).....woooooooooooooo!