relationship question..... this is a big mistake to ask here

[DoWorkBson]

Has anyone heard the phrase "im not emotionally ready for a relationship with anyone right now" and had anything work out?

[sunbunny]

No

[SCMunnerlyn1]

It depends .. i've heard it once and backed off for a couple weeks , then made another attempt and got a good 3 months out of it before she moved away. What do you know about her past relationships?

[DoWorkBson]

Dude she just broke up with, probably 2 months ago is a complete tool. I knew him in high school and assume he hasn't changed in 7 or so years

[necroplasm]

Just give it time.

Be patient..stick around but don't push. Absorb your surroundings.

Our solar system's planets have to revolve. lol, even if that's not the case, that person may just be going through many up and downs at this time... or was hurt in recent past, eh?

[Jbro]

Three R's... Roofie, rape, repeat. Who cares what she says?

[Jackofalltrades]

Try chloroform next time.

[Kevin Greene]

You're not getting laid tonight.

[Razzy]

No. The last "girlfriend" I had was that case. We dated for around 6 months, but it never got very serious. We never even met each others' families. Right before summer we got in a fight and she pulled the "I'm not ready for a serious relationship, it's not what I want." card. We just started talking again after nearly 4 month, but I can tell nothing will work out. This and "just want to be friends" are killers.

[o803oVaDeR]

I actually used that phrase for almost a year with my girl. We are getting married next sat. So i guess it can workout. Of course that flips it a little with it coming from a guy and not a girl. I was just not ready for a relationship and i honestly did not think it would be her anyway. I guess i was wrong. Lol

[Delhommey]

Is she emotionally ready to ***? If so, who cares?

[hepcat]

Yes I've heard that, in different words but essentially the same thing. She wanted to bang other guys, is the way I took it.

[Zod]

I can't think of anything more misguided than asking relationship status to a bunch of backwards, porn addicted hairy palmed rednecks.

Present company excluded of course.

[4Corners]

you guys are a bunch of homos

go out to a bar with another girl and let her see you