Weightist...

[theyhateme45]

Ask anyone who knew them as a couple and they will tell you that she put on as much weight as she did in no small part because of the way he treated her. He constantly made fun of her, insulted her when they were out in public, would take a menu away from her in a restaurant, poo like that.

I saw her at the funeral of a family friend a while back and she had lost a lot of the weight she put on during the marriage.

And he is getting what he deserves. Cant get a date because he is too short. LOL!!

Yea, I understand that 100%. There is no call for that all. Plus I think I'm would be more worried about the weight for health reasons, while for him the issue is more centered around looks.

It's good that she is seperated from him... Life is too short and you only get 1 chance at it on earth, no reason to spend it stuck on stupid.

[bleys]

I'm not against people being overweight,

some of my best friends are overweight..

;)

[Guest]

the shopping cart thing really pisses me off too.

[Darth Biscuit]

I'm not against people being overweight,

some of my best friends are overweight..

;)

Riiiiiight... and I bet you have black friends too... :p

Are they fat too?

[Jase]

I'm not against people being overweight,

some of my best friends are overweight..

;)

this is just another case of... weight guilt? :willy_nilly:

[thefuzz]

Talk about judging people by their physical appearance.

I know this guy who always has been very image conscious. He wouldn't be caught dead with an overweight woman which by his definition is anything larger than a size 4/6.

Years ago he found a woman who fit his criteria and they got married. They were happy for a few years until she started putting on weight. At first it was just a little, she was ver fit but was a size or two bigger than the day they got married. It was a situation he couldn't bear, so he began to berate her and constantly pick at her about it.. Well once that started things got "worse". Her weight gain accelerated and she ended up being a very large woman and the marriage ended.

Now dude is trying to meet someone new. He is on most of the dating sites and just can't seem to find anyone who wants to go out. He is a "nice" guy with a house, two cars, and a steady job. He likes kids and animals and pays his bills on time. Top it all off with he learned his lesson with the weight thing after they divorced.

His "problem" is that he is 5'6"

There is a certain poetic justice to it...

Fiz?

[Panthro]

this is just another case of... weight guilt? :willy_nilly:

I think I yelled out on the bball court....WEIGHT POWER!

[Panthers_Lover]

like I said....I DO know some of these people.

You're a hard nut to crack ... but maybe you soaked in some of what I was trying to get across.

[Panthro]

I am investing in anything diabetic related. These fatties are like cash cows.

[Cat]

I'm not offended ... I guess I'm trying to get you to understand that you don't know people ... individuals. That you can't know them just by watching them park and get out of their cars. That you don't know their stories. That you can't, or shouldn't, judge them based on that because you can't know.

Do I do it? Absolutely. But, I try very hard not to. I try to remember that I don't walk in their shoes, I don't know their lives, their trials, their tribulations, their pain.

Of course, I want to scream those things at the top of my lungs when I see people look at me like you probably would look at me ... but I let it go because I know it's human nature to judge. I can't let what they may, or may not, think of me change me or worry me. I got enough junk in my life to worry about; don't need some stranger's judgment added to it.

That's the case with anyone, not just fat people but also the ass hole or slow poke that drives u crazy. For all you know they just found out they had cancer. Or there kid is dying or is disable.u never know what hello people have or r going through so its best not to be too hard on anyone.

[Panthers_Lover]

That's the case with anyone, not just fat people but also the ass hole or slow poke that drives u crazy. For all you know they just found out they had cancer. Or there kid is dying or is disable.u never know what hello people have or r going through so its best not to be too hard on anyone.

I absolutely agree. I try to remember that ... very unsuccessful sometimes, myself.

[hepcat]

Weight used to be a symbol of high status. Now, what is it?

[Joscott]

I had a major problem with my weight as a kid. I actually weighed in at the upper 260s in middle school. If you think people are mean as adults, its worse for kids and the constant bullying goes a long way for motivation. I lost about 70lbs midway through high school and have never looked back. Hell, the people that picked on me probably wish they were in the shape I am now.

It's the persons choice how they take care of themselves, but I'll admit it annoys me to see an overweight couple with an overweight child just because I know what that kids going to go through. It's hard to stand up to your parents when you are young and say I have to start eating better but it changed my life.

[Panther'sBigD]

It's tough to have a food addiction because your body has to eat to survive. Most other addiction once broken you can avoid afterwards. Food is needed for survival.

Thats not my issue....I just like Chinese buffets.

Serious question, what's your favorite one in Charlotte?