How did you know?

[MunkeyNuts]

When she said "I'm Pregnant"

[thefuzz]

Probably the longest thread I have ever started, thanks to all who helped me out. I appreciate it.

Been thinking about this a little more.

If you really want her, and I mean really bad, stop wearing basketball sneakers.

Ha.:D

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

Been thinking about this a little more.

If you really want her, and I mean really bad, stop wearing basketball sneakers.

Ha.:D

She plays DI basketball, so we rock basketball shoes and shorts all day together.

[4Corners]

She plays DI basketball

Are you sure she isn't a lesbian?

[thefuzz]

She plays DI basketball, so we rock basketball shoes and shorts all day together.

Key word, She. Not you.

Go get some normal clothes.

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

Jordans and ball shorts is not normal for a male college student? I must have missed that memo.

[thefuzz]

Jordans and ball shorts is not normal for a male college student? I must have missed that memo.

Just teasing you man.

Maybe it's just where I live, but I never see guys sporting ball shorts and high top basketball shoes rolling around campus.

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

All gravy, could be a New England thing? ha beats me.

[SOJA]

ask her to go to dinner, be charming, be flirty...if she responds ask her if she'd ever consider being more than friends

also do you guys actively hook up with other people, if she really is your best friend I would assume you guys would have talked about at least that

oh and good luck. worst comes to worst, you tried. At the end of the day trying and failing is a hell of a lot better than never trying at all

[o803oVaDeR]

Thanks for the words of wisdom. Now for you married Huddlers, when/how did you know your significant other was the one for you? I assume many of you were in the same stage I am right now.

Leaving for my boy's house then I'm going to play ball but keep the posts coming and I'll address them when I am home. Thanks again.

Here is the thing bro. You never really know anything for sure. You just have to go with your gut. I know you dont want to hurt your close friendship but if you have these feelings and do not express them, then another man will. Then it will not matter. I am guessing from the way you talk it would really hurt you to see her fall for another man. It will happen eventually if you keep dragging your feet. If you want something go after it. If it hurts your friendship then you will have put an end to your suffering before it really begins, like when she starts getting serious with other dudes.

[bleys]

ask her to go to dinner, be charming, be flirty...if she responds ask her if she'd ever consider being more than friends

also do you guys actively hook up with other people, if she really is your best friend I would assume you guys would have talked about at least that

oh and good luck. worst comes to worst, you tried. At the end of the day trying and failing is a hell of a lot better than never trying at all

no offense.. but f**k no. hell no.. hellllll no.. no. no. just no. hell f**king no..

nice guys finish last.. and dinner is a horrible 1st date.. who the f**k came up with that idea generations ago?

[SOJA]

no offense.. but f**k no. hell no.. hellllll no.. no. no. just no. hell f**king no..

nice guys finish last.. and dinner is a horrible 1st date.. who the f**k came up with that idea generations ago?

nice guys finish first with nice girls - sure they may like a bad boy for a one night stand which is cool and all, but he said it was his best friend and it didn't sound like he was interested in a one nighter

as always just my .02

[bleys]

any independent, strong woman wants a man with flavor. play nice and watch every girl walk away, except for the meek or ultra conservative...

I can't tell you how many nice girls I've seen this apply to.. although as with anything, there are exceptions..

[thefuzz]

I'm kinda with bleys on this one.

If it were me, I would just be very direct about my feelings for her, and what I hope me being honest will accomplish.

Either she is going to say I have been feeling the same way, or she will say that she just doesn't feel that way. There is no middle ground.

You will not be able to continue to "just be her friend" if you really think that you love her. If she is not into you, and you allow yourself to hang around in "friend zone" when she starts banging other guys it will rip you to shreds.

Speak your mind, if she's down, maybe you found the right one. If she's not, tell her that you can't "just be friends" anymore, that you need something different. Leave, and mean it.

Either way, be a man, and you will get the girl.