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What should I do in this situation


Mayor Qumiby

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I understand what you are saying, to see how she's going to play her hand.

I would confront him as well, I would want him to know I won't allow any encouragement on his part other than visitation to see the child. If they are wanting to get back together, let me know now & more power to you!

nah, 6 months in....I say his main issue is w/ the lady. Not the baby daddy.

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My $0.02:

In my experience girls I'm dating hanging out with x-boyfriends at all means they're fuging. I haven't dated a girl with a kid so I can't speak on that situation.

What would alarm me is the over an hour for a 15 minute trip. If she shows up with anything less than $200 worth of groceries or clothes, she's a slut and you should start packing.

And on that part, I asked what took so long and apparently they stood in the yard and talked that whole time.. but yea I mean I haven't been lied to before so I really have no reason not to trust her.

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Thanks for all the input guys. but here's how it played out she came back into the bedroom and "woke me up" and told me everything. See my girlfriend never talks to him, he calls she wont pick up he tries to add her on FB she declines and he's been trying to get in contact with her but she wants nothing to do with him. So this morning when she walks outside she saw him just sitting in his car in the driveway, she's goes and ask what he is doing here and he was like well if you picked up your phone and talked to me I wouldn't be here and basically he was there to see if he could go see her dance recital which is today.

So yea the situation is pretty weird, but not really what we were thinking lol.

sounds good.. didn't know she did all that to avoid him.

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just be honest and ask her what's going on. Tough situation with an ex and a child etc. Think of what's best for the child if you can without getting your own emotions in the way at first anyway...go from there. Maybe they actually just had to talk about the kid and the future etc.

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