Curious about women saying no..

[GritsRgreat]

Alcohol, lots of it.

[Wither]

Ever wonder how that rape and sexual harassment thing comes around?

[LifeisaGarden]

No means no, so just stop doing anything. That should get her attention.

[GritsRgreat]

Ever wonder how that rape and sexual harassment thing comes around?

Meh, thats only for the ugly people. Didn't you see Tom Brady on SNL?

[pstall]

if you're smooth, her eyes will tell you all you need to know

[dimbee]

A little twiddle of the bean and "no" turns into "Ohhhhhhh"

[JJlovesthePanthers]

No means no. But women are like men, it's only natural to want to do it, so they get caught up.

The polite thing to do, though, is respect them the first time they say no instead of continuing to mess with them until no is yes.

[The Saltman]

I say no mostly. Is that the same thing?

[Darth Biscuit]

I say no mostly. Is that the same thing?

Depends, does he listen to you?

[The Saltman]

:(

[Panthers_Lover]

I find that this is common amongst women with extreme anger issues towards men. it's the control and the game that turns them on. of course, that anger can be fueled into a period of awesomeness..

Then why do you date said women?

[Panthers_Lover]

..but means yes.

I've experienced this over the years.. a woman says no to make you think she isn't easy, but let's you mess around until she feels you've earned the right to sit atop that pedestal...

curious about how often men have had to deal with this, and also, any input women have to give..

obviously, no means no.. except when it means yes... wait, what? exactly...

I just wonder why it has to be all or nothing. If we're talking a first or second date, for example, then she may not be ready to hop on it immediately, but may still enjoy some sexual play. Maybe it's not letting you "mess around until she feels you've earned the right," but more of "letting" you mess around because that is a pleasurable activity ... and that lasts until you've earned her trust to go further.

Again ... why does it have to be all or nothing?

(I do think women need to express themselves a bit more clearly in these situations.)

[88 Bronco]

I've been married long enough that when she says no I say "fug you I'm going to sleep"

[Zcustom]

Just another game women play, most don't even know they do it.

When I was a bachelor I didn't play that poo, either you were in or you weren't. I ended up with some pretty skanky girls from time to time, but to me skanky was better than playing fuging games all night.

Unless she REALLY meant no, it's so hard to tell, fuging women