Serious Sex Question

[boo7382]

i think a man's willingness(at least mine) is also affected by the woman's ability to climax. i've had all kinds from one end of the spectrum to the other. one girl had never gotten off even when using toys. i did everything i knew for her, and researched to learn more. nothing. so it seemed pointless. another ALWAYS had multiples. i had no problem putting on scuba gear for her.

I think I'm somewhere in the middle there. However, I will say a guy who is determined to get it done makes it that much easier.

Nothing worse than feeling like you are inconveniencing him b/c its something he would rather not be doing. :(

Just doing that can stretch my imagination into thinking you are just disgusted with me as a whole.

[Kettle]

I think I'm somewhere in the middle there. However, I will say a guy who is determined to get it done makes it that much easier.

Nothing worse than feeling like you are inconveniencing him b/c its something he would rather not be doing. :(

Just doing that can stretch my imagination into thinking you are just disgusted with me as a whole.

men can become frustrated easily. Wifey can tell lots of stories about me in that regard.

[bleys]

I thought this might be popular but even I underestimated it... :lol:

It's an interesting topic... lots to learn.

right there with you.. figured the huddle couldn't handle this kind of topic. one of few times they've proved me wrong, lol..

The best rewards I'm talking about here are purely sexual. ... If a man takes the time to become skilled at giving oral sex (and not only that, but that's the topic at hand here), and provides me with an experience that is more than merely the obligatory "warming" me up, then the rewards would be realized in the form of my becoming more engaged in the entire sexual experience beyond what might "normally" be expected. I'm all for a good quickie every once in a while, but to me, the sexual experience can and should be more than a lick here, a suck there ... fug a little while, and be done ....

Hummmm ... I fear I'm not making myself clear.

yes you are, I'm right there with you.. and confirmed when you agree with this..

I would add

...and a willingness to try new things. Its a playground, have fun, get creative.

because if someone isn't into trying new things, sex can turn pretty dull if it's just routine..

just curious if that's true with most women, as my sample size has shown me majority think of it as routine.. but the best have been those who like to expand their boundaries and enjoy everything past what is typically just a 10 minute routine of ordinary..

every time doesn't have to be some grand experience, but I do get bored easily if I can tell my partner lacks enthusiasm for "different"..

[boo7382]

men can become frustrated easily. Wifey can tell lots of stories about me in that regard.

That's fine. As long as you don't give up! Give up and you piss me off and you probably won't get what you want.

Be determined to get it done and get it done and you get whatever you want.

[Darth Biscuit]

I think I'm somewhere in the middle there. However, I will say a guy who is determined to get it done makes it that much easier.

Nothing worse than feeling like you are inconveniencing him b/c its something he would rather not be doing. :(

Just doing that can stretch my imagination into thinking you are just disgusted with me as a whole.

I think this is the whole point... when you're with someone you want to feel wanted and desired. If you're gonna be with someone you should put effort into it not just half ass it.

[boo7382]

just curious if that's true with most women, as my sample size has shown me majority think of it as routine.. but the best have been those who like to expand their boundaries and enjoy everything past what is typically just a 10 minute routine of ordinary..

every time doesn't have to be some grand experience, but I do get bored easily if I can tell my partner lacks enthusiasm for "different"..

10 minutes?!:hand:

[bleys]

i think a man's willingness(at least mine) is also affected by the woman's ability to climax. i've had all kinds from one end of the spectrum to the other. one girl had never gotten off even when using toys. i did everything i knew for her, and researched to learn more. nothing. so it seemed pointless. another ALWAYS had multiples. i had no problem putting on scuba gear for her.

about sums it up.. and I think the women agree.. that's why I feel communication is key.

obviously, the trust factor is huge..

[Miaoww]

well, I already gave you rep.. so ...

:lurk5:

key words.. I hate when girls are scared to communicate what they like. it should be standard practice, every girl has their thing they like.

Yep, nothing worse than having to guess what gets the girl off. Communication is vital - especially if she wants to enjoy it as much as I obviously will.

[The Saltman]

Yep, nothing worse than having to guess what gets the girl off. Communication is vital - especially if she wants to enjoy it as much as I obviously will.

Your username is perfect for this thread.

[Miaoww]

Your username is perfect for this thread.

It was perfect for our pussified offence last year too.

[bleys]

10 minutes?!:hand:

[The Saltman]

It was perfect for our pussified offence last year too.

what's an offence you pussified english twat?

[Miaoww]

what's an offence you pussified english twat?

It's the correct way to spell offense you *****.

[Epistaxis]

Depends on what you mean by like.

I do it mostly for her pleasure and because they usually return the favor. It also helps to insure that she gets off multiple times.

Plus, at my age, I need to get her really warmed up as my stamina is a bit reduced.

I always deliver :D

This.

Most assuredly this.