Give me your opinion

[Hawk]

sounds like maybe you need some of this....some language, so watch the volume at work/kiddies

[PanthaSan]

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Kurb: So he is using the Peace Corps for a fugfest across the country ?

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*goes to join the Peace Corps*

[boo7382]

*goes to join the Peace Corps*

Great.....3 billion more kids roam the Earth:thumbsup:

[Miaoww]

So he likes asian chicks? Can't say I blame him.

My two cents - if you've talked about it with your wife and she doesn't think it's anything serious (and you've already stated that you're very co-dependent) then I don't think it's a problem. Assuming of course she's not flirting back.

If it's REALLY bothering you just be honest with her and let her know that it has to stop. By the sounds of it you've got a good marriage there and she'll abide by your wishes.

OR we could just provide you with an alibi as you dump his body off Long Island.

[Kurb]

I mean if we want to get complicated I have access to incinerators that can dispose of 200+ lbs of flesh in a few hours.

[boo7382]

I mean if we want to get complicated I have access to incinerators that can dispose of 200+ lbs of flesh in a few hours.

I might need your help on something unrelated....

[j2sgam]

Me and an old GF defined cheating as doing 'anything that you would not do with your partner right next to you'.. That being said, you need to go piss on your tree. Its easy enough to let the guy know that she is your wife and you dont really appreciate his actions, whatever his motives may be. Before youre done, make it clear that if you have to come say anything about this again it wont be with words, all that needs to be said has already been...

[mmmbeans]

every time he texts your wife, send him a picture of your junk.

[Mr. Scot]

Give me your opinion

You're ugly.

Oh...wrong kind of opinion, sorry :sosp:

I'd definitely confront him, unless it would upset her for you to do so.

It is really better if she does it, but if she won't, then I'd say you should.

[Mr. Scot]

Texting is the same as calling is the same as talking to.

Agreed

The content and intent of what is communicated are what matter, not the method.

[Mr. Scot]

This to me is the key. If I ever say anything to a girl it'd be the same damn thing I'd say if my girlfriend was standing next to me or not.

Similar principle: Don't say anything to a married woman that you wouldn't be comfortable saying in front of her husband.

(that goes for actions/displays of affection too)

[Mr. Scot]

I loled.

I guess I just don't get it.

I don't mess and never have messed with gals that are taken, and as a single dude the thought of being evenly slightly "flirty" with a married woman would not even cross my mind.

See, here I go again.

After that, I can't help thinking he needs some manners pounded in to him, for the benefit of everyone.

I don't go for flirting on either part when in a relationship.

Funny thing: When it comes to more innocent stuff like drooling over a particular celebrity, I tend not to do that within the confines of a relationship, but it never bothers me when a lady does (makes me laugh, honestly).

[sharkkiller]

I say that if it makes you uncomfortable, which it must for you to post it here and ask for opinions, then you need to let your wife know this. If she cares about your feelings, then she will put an end to it.

Also as a side note, if she is liking the attention from another man, you may want to take a look at yourself, and how you are approaching the relationship. There may be something lacking, that she is looking for somewhere else. Not saying it is true, but in most cases, if the woman is digging the attention of another man, it is because of something she is not getting from her man.

Just my opinion.

[jasonluckydog]

Invite him over for a 3 way and tell him you cant wait to meet him,

I bet the text stops if not you guys can have some fun.