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First Dates

hepcat

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My first date with the current gf was at Sir Ed's out on the patio. Had a couple pints and a sammich (bought it...she did not make it and bring it in her purse for me).

Keep it Simple. During the work week. (you have an out and she isn't pressured to hang out later) Good Luck!

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Fondue is a killer date place.

You have to talk.

Problem is it is expensive.

I stand by my earlier statement.

Offer evidence that my wife is way out of my league to justify my advise.:cool:

Oh man I love fondue....great idea! And yea, its mad expensive. That's a good conversation starter too haha and you have something to do instead of sitting there twiddling your thumbs trying to think what to talk about.

I just hope you don't get in my situation hep, where I was cracking jokes and the guy was obviously not understanding and looking at me like I was serious

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My first date with the current gf was at Sir Ed's out on the patio. Had a couple pints and a sammich (bought it...she did not make it and bring it in her purse for me).

Keep it Simple. During the work week. (you have an out and she isn't pressured to hang out later) Good Luck!

Me and the wife had pretty much same first date. You tread dangerous ground...:eek:

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Just took some girl out for the first time to the cheesecake factory last week, says she had a really good time, but now everything I do seems to piss her off and she refuses to talk to me anymore. ...bitches

Ok, I just didn't want to hurt his feelings.

She didn't know how she felt so she was like meh, Ill go out on a date, see what happens.

At some point throughout, she realized, she's not very into you. She should be doing the mature thing and just straight up telling you that she's not into it, but obviously she's not doing that.

Don't call or talk to her anymore, especially if she is getting pissy with you and not answering your calls. Its making you look bad even though I know you aren't being clingy and hounding her.

I don't understand why people can't be upfront and honest. If you are not into someone, just let them know. Sure, it may hurt their feelings, but only for a short period of time. Dragging them along on your immature ways hurts people more.

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Oh man I love fondue....great idea! And yea, its mad expensive. That's a good conversation starter too haha and you have something to do instead of sitting there twiddling your thumbs trying to think what to talk about.

I just hope you don't get in my situation hep, where I was cracking jokes and the guy was obviously not understanding and looking at me like I was serious

Of course you do.

Boo stop dating this person.

A human without a sense of humor is a serious PITA.

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It doesn't have to be intimate. Why don't you do something that you both enjoy that will keep you talking. Or, take her somewhere that isn't extremely nice but still fun to go to. You don't have to take her to the most expensive restaurant in town, shes not looking for that. Shes just tryin to see if she likes you and if you are a freaking weirdo or not.

I've got these senior exams on Saturday and I really should just study on Thursday because if I don't pass I don't graduate and I've gotta take them again next semester. But I'm trying to take her out Thursday because a) if I wait too long I might never go out with her and B) we have a big show on Friday night (expected draw anywhere 300-600) and if both nights went well I could really hit a home run with her. Under other circumstances I'd take her out for a bite at a casual place to eat then go to a show but she's coming to our show on Friday so two nights in a row of shows might be a little much.

She definitely came onto me first so I've got that going but I'm being careful about taking it too far on the first date.

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