Do all women do this?!?

[The Saltman]

Then make time.

[Carolina Mike]

Like I said klong talk to her about it. If u can't have good communication in a marriage something is wrong.

Thanks Mohammed Phil!

[The Saltman]

Shutup mike u slutface pooppie head

[Darth Biscuit]

time is really the biggest issue. not communication. at the end of all the daily tasks, there is little time.

This is the argument that my wife and I have had for years. She has time for all that other stuff, but not for me??? I make time for the things that are important... so that shows me where I am on the list of "important..."

Now you got me ranting...

[The Saltman]

This is the argument that my wife and I have had for years. She has time for all that other stuff, but not for me??? I make time for the things that are important... so that shows me where I am on the list of "important..."

Now you got me ranting...

then tell her that

[Kettle]

Now you got me ranting...

maybe we should have a beer some day. say hooters? crazyhorse?

mine actually is legit. she doesn't get off work a lot of times until 7 30.

[Darth Biscuit]

then tell her that

Dude, you don't even know how many times this has been discussed... seriously.

maybe we should have a beer some day. say hooters? crazyhorse?

mine actually is legit. she doesn't get off work a lot of times until 7 30.

Sounds good to me... yeah, work is an issue, I get that. 7:30 is pretty late... and if you have to go in early, that makes it tough. There are obviously exceptions, but she doesn't have to work ALL the time, nor do you. It's a two way street... if you're doing your part, helping around the house, etc., then she needs to do hers. IOW it needs to be mutual...

[The Saltman]

Dude, you don't even know how many times this has been discussed... seriously.

:piggy:

[Kettle]

been discussed at length at my house too. she always ends up saying that I am not making enough effort. definitely need to talk to her more about it. i just hate rehashing what i've already told her.

[The Saltman]

Women make me :crazy:

[TarPanther9180]

This is why you stay single...just wish someone told me that when I was 20.

[Kettle]

well 20 is too young to marry anyways. i did it just before turning 30. may still have been too young.

[Darth Biscuit]

been discussed at length at my house too. she always ends up saying that I am not making enough effort. definitely need to talk to her more about it. i just hate rehashing what i've already told her.

This is the last I'll say about it unless you want to take it to PM... and the only reason I'm posting this is that hopefully someone else can benefit from my experience...

To me it's a "want to" thing. Either you want to "fill in the blank" (help around the house, help with the kids, have sex, etc.), or you don't.

Having a ***-for-tat (no pun intended) quota system is a straight line to trouble in any relationship.

[Kettle]

no need for PM. i'm just gonna meditate on it, and talk to her when my thoughts are in order.