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Do all women do this?!?

TarPanther9180

By TarPanther9180,
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boo7382 Newbie

boo7382

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ahh, the infamous Brio date, huh?

Youre right. This was actually the same guy. Decided to give him another chance....didnt work out so well.

Hes been hounding me for 2 weeks now to go out again....I think he finally got the point the other day because I havent heard from him since.:ack2:

In case you guys dont already know (those who arent married) constantly messaging us and hounding us is a complete turn off.

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JakeFlake Newbie

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Youre right. This was actually the same guy. Decided to give him another chance....didnt work out so well.

Hes been hounding me for 2 weeks now to go out again....I think he finally got the point the other day because I havent heard from him since.:ack2:

In case you guys dont already know (those who arent married) constantly messaging us and hounding us is a complete turn off.

There will be others. And for the record I have been guilty of the messaging thing.

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Panthers_Lover Newbie

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QFT

my wife seems to not know that she could control my every action with regular sucking and fugging.

Are you nice to her? Do you compliment her? Do you make her feel wanted? I'm not accusing ... just asking.

I remember a friend telling me how her husband was mean, gripping all the time, fussing with her about this or that (he was an extreme control freak), then wanted to have sex at night ... she said to me, "He treats me like that all day long, and then he wants me to be 'nice' to him? Why should I?"

One relationship adviser once said (can't remember whether it was in person or in his book) that you should treat your partner the way you want to be treated. Give to your partner that which you crave the most ... and you won't believe how difficult that can be. Something as simple as wanting a foot rub ... maybe you really want one, but don't ask for it ... instead, offer it. Your mate (spouse, SO, whatever) probably will know you well enough to know you don't like giving them, and you really prefer receiving them ... they'll know you're doing something different. Now, don't do it as a "***-for-tat," as someone put it. You might not get yours right away ... and you should be OK with that. Down the line, these things pay off ... not in finally getting more sex, but in developing a more intimate relationship, which leads to more and better sex. A more mutual relationship.

(All this, says the divorced woman ... our sex was really good down to the last time we did it.)

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