Friend zone

[pstall]

Women can also see that look in a guys eye at a club or elsewhere. The look of I am here to mate(good luck with that) Go out, have fun, do what you do and if you take care of yourself, can carry a good conversation and especially make a girl laugh, you are gold.

[Skew]

I still don't know why any man would want to be friends with a woman if the woman is not giving up the pussy, in the kitchen making me a sammich, or doing my laundry.

weird

[thefuzz]

I still don't know why any man would want to be friends with a woman if the woman is not giving up the pussy, in the kitchen making me a sammich, or doing my laundry.

weird

Bingo.

I have always said this to my girl. She would always talk about her "guy friends" when we first started dating. I would respond that they are not your "guy friends" but rather guys that want to bang you that you have put into the friend zone.

It took about 2 years before she fully understood it, but she certainly does now. All of her other friends do the whole " he is my friend, we can share the same bed, and he doesn't even think about touching me".

Pretty naive if you ask me.

[Scrumtrilescent]

The only time men have problems with women is when they put the pussy on a pedestal. If you go through life acting you'll be fine if they come or go, you'll have them crawling all over you. If you spend all your time worrying about what they're thinking or saying, they'll keep you at arm's length (or in a zone) at all times. That's why they're constantly testing us. Have I got a man here, or a child who misses his mama?

22 posts before the pussy on a pedestal reference!

Punch her in her ovaries.

[Scrumtrilescent]

Bingo.

I have always said this to my girl. She would always talk about her "guy friends" when we first started dating. I would respond that they are not your "guy friends" but rather guys that want to bang you that you have put into the friend zone.

It took about 2 years before she fully understood it, but she certainly does now. All of her other friends do the whole " he is my friend, we can share the same bed, and he doesn't even think about touching me".

Pretty naive if you ask me.

Annnnd we have the When Harry Met Sally reference.

Thread: complete.

poo's true, though.

[thefuzz]

Annnnd we have the When Harry Met Sally reference.

Thread: complete.

poo's true, though.

Strangly enough, I have never seen that movie.

Even more strange, girls actually believe that guys are "guy friends" and have not intention of banging them.

[Happy Panther]

Yep.

Date another girl that is hotter, talk about the awesome sex, always mention that there is something missing, even though she is everything you thought that you were looking for.

Thank me later.

If I have a hotter girl who gives me awesome sex why would I bother with the first bird?

[panther4life]

If I have a hotter girl who gives me awesome sex why would I bother with the first bird?

In all reality this girl could be fictional as long as you sell it right.

Once you create the jealousy factor your in

[thefuzz]

If I have a hotter girl who gives me awesome sex why would I bother with the first bird?

Ummm...

Obviously you didn't get the point of the excercise.

You will be nailing both of them in no time.

[Happy Panther]

rep

[boo7382]

In the old days it was called chivalry. When you treat women like they're princesses or "on a pedestal". Women grow up thinking how wonderful it would be to be treated that way by Prince Charming, but when real guys do it, it annoys the crap out of them. Act like you are perfectly happy no matter where you are or what you're doing, and it draws women to you. Act like you have to be around her to be happy, and it repels them. They don't want a doormat. They want someone they must tame.

If I had to guess, the OP has come on a little too strong and she is keeping him at arm's length. As if to say "I'll keep you here for a rainy day, but meanwhile I want a bronco to ride."

hahaha sorry guess u guys didnt get the reference. i was quoting 40 yr old virgin. and no...i dont EVER complain when a guy treats me well. in fact, he doesnt deserve to be with me if he doesnt think i deserve to be treated well. every girl appreciates a gentleman. we are attracted to as*holes sometimes ur right, but in the end. all we want is someone who appreciates us. as far as the friend thing goes, my ex bf of 4 years was my friend for 2 years prior. the friend zone is not always a bad place. sometimes it just takes us a while to realize ur the guy we want.

[boo7382]

Strangly enough, I have never seen that movie.

Even more strange, girls actually believe that guys are "guy friends" and have not intention of banging them.

i have plenty of friends who are guys. who else am i gonna talk to about football?...other girls? ha

[Matt Foley]

hahaha sorry guess u guys didnt get the reference. i was quoting 40 yr old virgin. and no...i dont EVER complain when a guy treats me well. in fact, he doesnt deserve to be with me if he doesnt think i deserve to be treated well. every girl appreciates a gentleman. we are attracted to as*holes sometimes ur right, but in the end. all we want is someone who appreciates us. as far as the friend thing goes, my ex bf of 4 years was my friend for 2 years prior. the friend zone is not always a bad place. sometimes it just takes us a while to realize ur the guy we want.

I'm not saying the guy has to treat the girl like crap. Treat her right, but then move on and do something else and be happy while doing so. She'll think "I like this guy, when's his attention going to come back to me"? If the guy acts like he's miserable without her and arranges his life around hers, she starts to feel something else entirely.

[sunbunny]

Back in the day, when dinosaurs roamed the earth it seems, if I put a guy in the friend zone, it was for a reason. There was zero chance of him ever getting out of it. If I had a guy who was a friend but I secretly wanted more, there were hints; flirting, calling, touching, etc.