Friend zone

[Sameday]

I just didn't see it coming. We weren't friends before meeting so nothing to revert back to. I'll probably stay away.

[dimbee]

I just didn't see it coming. We weren't friends before meeting so nothing to revert back to. I'll probably stay away.

How far along did you two get and how quickly? She may be feeling like she gave up too much too quickly and is trying to backtrack to the chasing stage. Ahhh... girls.

[EMSMedic79]

Friend zone is the worst place ever....I'd rather be enemies. At least then you know where you stand. Too much effort once your in the zone.....no payoff.

[Darth Biscuit]

TheFuzz's plan is fool proof either way...

[hepcat]

It takes time...you need to have enough time pass that she feels differently about you...from when she thought of you as just a friend to maybe more romantically. Happened to me with a girl I knew in high school I was "just friends" with, but she was definitely more interested in me 6 years later.

[pstall]

NEVER EVER under any circumstance do you allow anyone, let alone a woman, place you in a zone. Bro. Come on. You are a man. You get oil under your nails and you eat whatever is in the fridge and the wear the same underwear for at least 3 days.

Let her think you are in the friend zone, but you go to the I do whatever I friggin want zone. Be nice and cordial when you see her but rock and roll my man, rock and roll.

[boo7382]

i have to say this is probably the most entertaining thing ive read in a while. its like readin right into ur heads. some of u have some ideas that actually work. some of u...seem to think we like the smell of piss...which is not true. cologne would work better than that mmmmm axxxeee

anyways. please keep going so i can keep reading

[Sameday]

NEVER EVER under any circumstance do you allow anyone, let alone a woman, place you in a zone. Bro. Come on. You are a man. You get oil under your nails and you eat whatever is in the fridge and the wear the same underwear for at least 3 days.

Let her think you are in the friend zone, but you go to the I do whatever I friggin want zone. Be nice and cordial when you see her but rock and roll my man, rock and roll.

Thanks dude. I probably shouldn't feel so bad. I think this one was tough since I wanted more and that got me less.

[Matt Foley]

The only time men have problems with women is when they put the pussy on a pedestal. If you go through life acting you'll be fine if they come or go, you'll have them crawling all over you. If you spend all your time worrying about what they're thinking or saying, they'll keep you at arm's length (or in a zone) at all times. That's why they're constantly testing us. Have I got a man here, or a child who misses his mama?

[Sameday]

The only time men have problems with women is when they put the pussy on a pedestal. If you go through life acting you'll be fine if they come or go, you'll have them crawling all over you. If you spend all your time worrying about what they're thinking or saying, they'll keep you at arm's length (or in a zone) at all times. That's why they're constantly testing us. Have I got a man here, or a child who misses his mama?

Haha. It's probably true. I just got out of college. Women are different out here. It was easier in college.

[boo7382]

The only time men have problems with women is when they put the pussy on a pedestal. If you go through life acting you'll be fine if they come or go, you'll have them crawling all over you. If you spend all your time worrying about what they're thinking or saying, they'll keep you at arm's length (or in a zone) at all times. That's why they're constantly testing us. Have I got a man here, or a child who misses his mama?

what is this p*ssy on a pedestal sh*t?! why does everyone keep sayint hat to me?! ....but really, hes right, we always want what we cant have!

[TarPanther9180]

The only time men have problems with women is when they put the pussy on a pedestal. If you go through life acting you'll be fine if they come or go, you'll have them crawling all over you. If you spend all your time worrying about what they're thinking or saying, they'll keep you at arm's length (or in a zone) at all times. That's why they're constantly testing us. Have I got a man here, or a child who misses his mama?

Meat is right. Women want a challenge. If you try to stay up their ass all the time, you will turn them away in a hurry. You have to keep them guessing if you like them or not. It drives them crazy. Tell her whatever to the friend zone and go out drinking with buddies. Do not blow her phone up or text her all damn day either!

[Matt Foley]

what is this p*ssy on a pedestal sh*t?! why does everyone keep sayint hat to me?! ....but really, hes right, we always want what we cant have!

In the old days it was called chivalry. When you treat women like they're princesses or "on a pedestal". Women grow up thinking how wonderful it would be to be treated that way by Prince Charming, but when real guys do it, it annoys the crap out of them. Act like you are perfectly happy no matter where you are or what you're doing, and it draws women to you. Act like you have to be around her to be happy, and it repels them. They don't want a doormat. They want someone they must tame.

If I had to guess, the OP has come on a little too strong and she is keeping him at arm's length. As if to say "I'll keep you here for a rainy day, but meanwhile I want a bronco to ride."

[Delhommey]

A woman will respond to being treated well if you're being legitimately nice. A woman does not respond to being treated well if they can tell that you're just being nice so she'll sleep with you.

No one responds well to a push over.