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Honestly, have a heart to heart, and open with the dreaded "I think we need to talk".

And if she says you're being paranoid, ask her why she's always being so dismissive of your feelings when you really just want reassurance that you have a future together.

Will do on that. Was meaning to have that talk last night, but she stayed with a friend last night, so we couldn't talk long. Its just driving me up a wall thinking about the whole situation.

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Will do on that. Was meaning to have that talk last night, but she stayed with a friend last night, so we couldn't talk long. Its just driving me up a wall thinking about the whole situation.

you just don't seem to be first in her eyes. comes all that way, and stays the night with a friend? friends do lunch, dinner, drinks, shopping, etc. couples spend the night together. sorry man. just the way i see it.

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she's cheating on you, and the guy she's cheating on you with is smaller than you. she doesn't want you to stretch her out before she goes back to him...

true story... that's what happened with me and my x like two years ago when she moved out of town for school.

I've actually considered that being a possibility. Its like you're in my head! :eek:

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So, tonight took an interesting twist.

Just got off the phone with her. 8 minute convo. Tried asking her what's up and she just denied anything was wrong, that she simply enjoyed the comfort of not having to worry about pregnancy. I said, fine, whatever.

Well, then SHE said something, after a little pause that went something like this.

"It feels weird...I kind of feel bad...I miss you, but I don't even think about it until I talk to you...the relationship has kinda dulled. IDK if it's because you are further away or what."

I followed that with "I understand that. Just as long as your feelings haven't dulled. ya know?" I got no response for about 1 minute. The response I got? "i'm tired. worked all day."

So, the eject Maverick route may actually be the correct protocol here.

Also, I am officially in full blow relapse on dip as of 10:02 PM tonight. :(

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