Advice...

[lightsout]

I'm sure you are in love with this girl, but you are also in love with an idea. 4 years is a big investment of your life (guessing you are in your 20's). But here is the thing, not every investment works out. I invested 3+ years in this girl once. Chased her for 2 years, dated/gave her best sex of her life for 1. When it was over I looked back and saw all the fun and well tail I missed out on.:mad2:

You are walking away too. Even if you realize it or not. If you weren't you wouldn't have made this thread. You wouldn't have even questioned the not having sex deal. You are walking around campus wondering what this girl would be like and what that girl would be like. :troll:

You are young brother, enjoy it, if this girl is some magical life mate you will end up with her again. I didn't believe in poo like that until I met my wife.

Well said. I am taking all this in guys. I appreciate it. Just don't know how to just...end it. That's been my problem for while. We've been floundering for some time now. Maybe over time I will just be able to convince myself. Perhaps in the next month or so, and after I have to turn down a girl or two (I had to my first year of college...so hard) and well, 4 hours apart and minimal contact/similarities can make it easier. Rep to everybody!

[Kurb]

When you are ready you will know.

[lightsout]

When you are ready you will know.

That is some Obi wan Kenobi stuff. But I feel what you're saying.

[Khyber53]

Relax, visit with her. Take what she gives, suggest and then follow her wishes. You've got nothing to lose and can learn a lot about where the relationship is going.

Do you want her more than the sex? If it's the sex, well, sorry pal, you're not really in love. Do both of yourselves a favor and move on. If there's something besides the sex, well, you've really got something there, don't ya?

[Kettle]

i'll echo what kurb said basically. i was with one girl through high school. if i could get that part of my life back, i'd do things world's different

[The Saltman]

Is have to say with how many idiots on this board there is some good advice in this thread.

[Matt Foley]

Is have to say with how many idiots on this board there is some good advice in this thread.

Lord loves a workin' man, and don't trust Ay-rabs.

[The Saltman]

I kill u meat.

[CharlotteBeer.com]

I kill u meat.

The Saltman posted this at -- wait for it -- 9:11 a.m.! He's a terrorist! :eek:

[Zcustom]

hahahaha

dirka dirka

[The Saltman]

All of u best becareful. I have a super soaker and I know how to use it.

[Zcustom]

so you are gonna squirt everyone with a salty liquid?

[PanthaSan]

Lord loves a workin' man, and don't trust Ay-rabs.

I kill u meat.

The Saltman posted this at -- wait for it -- 9:11 a.m.! He's a terrorist! :eek:

:willy_nilly:

All of u best becareful. I have a super soaker and I know how to use it.

Is that what you are calling it now?

[Matt Foley]

All of u best becareful. I have a super soaker and I know how to use it.

Rodeo said you have one of those tiny water guns used to squirt cats with.