My girlfriend wants to experiment with girls. (Please Help)

[Hawk]

screw the other girl first to make sure she is worthy of having sex with your girlfriend!

[CharlotteBeer.com]

Firstly, hmmm does she still want you? I wouldn't go up to my girlfriend and say i want to try things with a boy

Yeah, it's better to keep that on the down-low.

[P-paw]

Well, I thought about it..and talked to her about it as well. It seems to her, same sex...sex is okay. No strings attached..anything. But it disappoints me because I had really high hopes to be able to carry our relationship into something long term. And I feel that I still can..it's just she wants to "live" while she can. It's not fair really. She even proposed to me that I could mess around with any guy and she wouldn't be upset. I gave her a funny look, and asked if she was high. But really though, I know she loves me..and she is going to stay exclusive to me. So I guess I should just stop thinking so old fashioned and let her have fun..

Btw, she said I couldn't join. But there is a possibility that I could watch.

Any more thoughts about this?

I'm still not completely sure what to think about it..

Huddle ladies, were you like this when you were younger?

Thanks for your replies.

Edit: I think she just wants to live out a fantasy. She's always watched lesbian porn...I think she is in for a letdown when it's not the same as the movie shows. lol

[NJPanthers12]

Well, my girlfriend told me today that she'd like to try "things" with other girls. We are both relatively young, but I'm still not sure what to think of the matter..so i was looking for a few second opinion's about this. She said there would be no emotions attached, but I still feel in some way that I would be getting cheated on. I'm not sure if its because in a way I'm jealous or what. But, to be honest...I don't know what to think...and I was just looking to see what some others thought. Here is some random information..

She said that if I was not able to be understanding and what not..she'd want to break up with me...and find a guy that IS. I don't understand un-emotional sex. Well, any help ladies and gentleman? (serious answers please)

What? i just read this over and you say " i dont understand un-emotional" sex. if it were not for un-emotional sex i dont know how i would live my life. get yours a peace out, theres no better feeling

[NJPanthers12]

Well, I thought about it..and talked to her about it as well. It seems to her, same sex...sex is okay. No strings attached..anything. But it disappoints me because I had really high hopes to be able to carry our relationship into something long term. And I feel that I still can..it's just she wants to "live" while she can. It's not fair really. She even proposed to me that I could mess around with any guy and she wouldn't be upset. I gave her a funny look, and asked if she was high. But really though, I know she loves me..and she is going to stay exclusive to me. So I guess I should just stop thinking so old fashioned and let her have fun..

Btw, she said I couldn't join. But there is a possibility that I could watch.

Any more thoughts about this?

I'm still not completely sure what to think about it..

Huddle ladies, were you like this when you were younger?

Thanks for your replies.

if she doesnt let you join cack slap her and get out of there.

[Panthro]

gtfo of that relationship now. run dont walk.

[CharlotteBeer.com]

What? i just read this over and you say " i dont understand un-emotional" sex. if it were not for un-emotional sex i dont know how i would live my life.

You're right; you probably would have never been conceived.

[Hawk]

tough call man. Sometimes a little harmless sex is just that...harmless. You could look at it one way and think if you let her do this, it might bring you closer, it might get you into a threeway or it might tear you apart. Only you know the answer to that!

[Kettle]

put it in her butt

[NJPanthers12]

put it in her butt

probably the most insightful post i have read on this board so far and im not being sarcastic.

but listen man i have un-emotional sex and it means absolutly nothing to me, so maybe she is telling the truth. i would just be furious that she wouldnt let me join now thats just being selfish.

[dixontosanders]

tough call man. Sometimes a little harmless sex is just that...harmless. You could look at it one way and think if you let her do this, it might bring you closer, it might get you into a threeway or it might tear you apart. Only you know the answer to that!

LOL, when you use the ! symbols, it looks like it's like a serious statement but from your avatar to the post i couldnt take the post seriously and just laughed although it's meant to be serious...

She doesn't want you to join in? Does she think your going to try have sex with the other girls? A lot of girls don't admit it but would love lesbian sex, it's okay for them to do it because its hot. but for boy on boy its disowned lol.

[Hawk]

but listen man i have un-emotional sex and it means absolutly nothing to me.

Easy to be un-emotional when you are alone

[Darth Biscuit]

put it in her butt

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:rofl:

[CharlotteBeer.com]

Well, I thought about it..and talked to her about it as well. It seems to her, same sex...sex is okay. No strings attached..anything. But it disappoints me because I had really high hopes to be able to carry our relationship into something long term. And I feel that I still can..it's just she wants to "live" while she can. It's not fair really. She even proposed to me that I could mess around with any guy and she wouldn't be upset. I gave her a funny look, and asked if she was high. But really though, I know she loves me..and she is going to stay exclusive to me. So I guess I should just stop thinking so old fashioned and let her have fun..

Btw, she said I couldn't join. But there is a possibility that I could watch.

Any more thoughts about this?

I'm still not completely sure what to think about it..

Huddle ladies, were you like this when you were younger?

Thanks for your replies.

Edit: I think she just wants to live out a fantasy. She's always watched lesbian porn...I think she is in for a letdown when it's not the same as the movie shows. lol

Everyone would love to live out their fantasies, but real life isn't like those "movie shows" she's come to love. You may think you have a future with this woman, but it sure doesn't sound like it. Any woman who gives an ultimatum and threatens to leave you if you don't let her sleep with woman is not worth keeping around. Period.

Unless, like some of these guys have said, you just want to pursue the same unemotional sex with her and her gal pals. But if your posts here are any indication, I think you'll be too emotionally-invested to do so.

I think you need to just let her go, to be completely honest.