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My girlfriend wants to experiment with girls. (Please Help)

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Probably the worst thing I ever did to her was pushing her into the couch hard enough that she hit the couch and went over it while the couch toppled over with her.

I love her to death.

It sounds like it.

I know you think you love this woman, and really who are any of us to say you don't. But can you really love anyone that has treated you this badly?

I would never, ever lay a finger on my wife. We don't have a perfect relationship -- no one does -- but I know that I can trust her in real life and online. I know a lot of people say "Oh, you never know," but when you have absolute trust in someone you really do know.

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Well obviously if I was engaged to her, then I love her a whole lot. Secondly I'm not perfect and like I said we used to argue and fight all the time. While I've never hit her, I've certainly pushed her or grabbed her and tossed her to the ground after she got done throwing stuff at me. Probably the worst thing I ever did to her was pushing her into the couch hard enough that she hit the couch and went over it while the couch toppled over with her. That was after she threw a glass vase, some books, some movies and my 360 controller at me and then when that just pissed me off and all I did was yell at her she came at me swinging her fist.

Mainly I can't afford the place I'm in with out her and I love her to death.

Neither of you are mature enough to be in a solid relationship... especially in a marriage...

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I would never, ever lay a finger on my wife. We don't have a perfect relationship -- no one does -- but I know that I can trust her in real life and online. I know a lot of people say "Oh, you never know," but when you have absolute trust in someone you really do know.

This for me as well. I haven't a single doubt in my mind that I could trust my wife in any situation.

And I would never raise a hand to her, and neither would she to me.

The thing is, if I were the type to put up with the kinds of sh*t these guys are, I probably never would have met her. So guys, while you're contemplating and justifying why you're staying with your lady, you're missing the best thing that could ever happen to you.

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The minute I found out she stayed with another guy it would be over. I don't care how much I loved her -- I deserve better. That's what it comes down to, guys. You deserve better than either of these girls, and they definitely don't deserve you. You may love them and it may be painful to leave them, but it has to be done.

There are too many people in this country who settle for those who don't deserve them, many of which who have children by these women later on. Ask yourselves: are these women fit to be the mother of your kids? Of course not.

Having fun and sleeping with them is one thing; considering a future with them is another entirely.

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I'm not going to say that I couldn't forgive my wife for something almost as bad, and I think that comes with realizing that everyone makes mistakes...

But this is basically a girfriend you are talking about... and if it were me, it'd be a soon-to-be-ex girlfriend...

Break the lease and run away... as far and as fast as you can...

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The point I was trying to make about potentially forgiving my wife is because love within a marriage is usually a salvageable love that has already withstood its ups and downs... Also, ending a marriage is a LOT harder on all the terms you are talking about (financial, emotional)... so thank your lucky stars that you didn't let it get that far, no matter how bad you wanted it to..

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i say you use her for one more night, google things you couldnt even imagine were possible, live out every fantasy you ever had, and then the next time she goes out change the locks and throw her stuff out the window. if you dont take this advice your a bro hater.

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I'm not going to say that I couldn't forgive my wife for something almost as bad, and I think that comes with realizing that everyone makes mistakes...

But this is basically a girfriend you are talking about... and if it were me, it'd be a soon-to-be-ex girlfriend...

Break the lease and run away... as far and as fast as you can...

EDIT to add this:

The point I was trying to make about potentially forgiving my wife is because love within a marriage is usually a salvageable love that has already withstood its ups and downs... Also, ending a marriage is a LOT harder on all the terms you are talking about (financial, emotional)... so thank your lucky stars that you didn't let it get that far, no matter how bad you wanted it to..

I was about to say what you've added in the edit. Usually a man and wife have put a lot of thought into marriage and truly know the other person (as well as another person can, I suppose). With such knowledge comes a willingness to, as cliche as it sounds, stay together no matter what.

But you know what also comes with marriage? A sincere desire not to do these horrible things to your spouse.

And now we've come full circle: 50 percent of marriages end in divorces because people are naive. They see their partners not for who they are, but for who they want them to be or hope they'll eventually become. These days, I really think that a lot of people don't take marriage seriously, and think in the back of their heads that it's nothing if they end in divorce. After all, you can always get remarried, right?

And that's truly sad.

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I can't add anything to what's already been said. You aren't in a normal relationship. Normal people don't throw scissors and other stuff. My husband and I have gotten into arguments, and I've never thrown anything at him or hit him. And trust me, I have a temper. Psycho bitch temper if someone hurts a member of my family. My husband has also never hit, thrown something, or shoved me.

Take it from someone who was in a fuged up relationship in my early 20's; GET OUT. One of you is gonna get hurt, and other in jail. Go see the landlord or whatever it takes to get out of the lease.

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