Selfish Significant Other...or Selfish ME

[PantherBoy95]

IDK what I'm even talking about right now but I feel the serious need to vent. Imagine that your favorite (fill in blank) 2 day convention is in town. And all that you've ever talked about is going to that convention and what not. Well during that period of time your spouse tells you they want to separate, (KNOWING THAT YOU'RE AT THIS EVENT) so you spend the rest of your time downtrotten and upset. Absolutely ruining your experience and thoughts of them flood your mind... THEN that same convention comes to their town (it's not as big of a deal to them, but they want to attend)... They have the time of their LIFE they meet the star of (Insert Blank here) and have an overall great time. How do you react? I know you have to take advantage of your opportunities and no one will sabotage their experiences over yours...and I don't mean to play WOE IS ME!:svengo:....but still how would you feel...

If I get no responses I understand b/c my vent is coming off beyond confusing IMO...and I just needed this simply to do that...vent... SMH Sorry... but if you get what I'm trying to say I'd like no LOVE to see your response.

[CharlotteBeer.com]

Was this Comic-Con or a porn convention? Either way, I guess I'd be pretty upset. Sorry man.

[Snake]

Women=Pure evil after a break up. No matter if they dumped you or you dumped them. I had a few ex's that I wish I could have dropped a Safe,Piano, or some other heavy object on after the split. They seem to want to be everywhere you are just to piss you off.

All I can say is sorry dude and pussy is the best medicine. Even better if you can screw her best friend.

[PantherBoy95]

Women=Pure evil after a break up. No matter if they dumped you or you dumped them. I had a few ex's that I wish I could have dropped a Safe,Piano, or some other heavy object on after the split. They seem to want to be everywhere you are just to piss you off.

All I can say is sorry dude and pussy is the best medicine. Even better if you can screw her best friend.

Thanks Berry man lol...

And Snake...yeah at the time I honestly had wanted to just about kill her, but we made amends at the very end of the event/convention...but that was the UNMISTAKABLY (< that is spelled right btw) THE MOST SELFISH ACT SHE COULD'VE DONE...I explained that to her afterwards...and I was completely over what happened...until she attended and had the time of her life...now I'm sitting here thinking about what joys "could've been"

[ItsNotGonnaBeAlright]

Can you really be the selfish one if you're the one who had the shitty time?

[PantherBoy95]

Well...I wanted her time to be just as miserable...childish-yes

True-yes lol

[lightsout]

Yeah man. I know the feeling. Had something similar happen to me (had a chick break up with me just before a football game when I was in high school. Not the best pregame routine). Not quite feelin you on the "i hope she has a crappy time like I did" cause, well, she left and went home before the game started. So, best I can tell you, get some poon tang, drink a beer or two, watch something funny, and pray that her next boyfriend is a piece of poo.

[Razzy]

Go break the hood of her car open and poo on her intake manifold.

Girls are bitches. She pulled a dirty one on you here and she seems completely not worth it. Pussy comes and pussy goes, relationships aren't worth it if the person isn't worth it. I know what you mean though, after my last breakup I wanted her to get run over by a car because that was how I felt. The worst thing ever is being completely head over heels for someone and then having them leave you out in the cold for no apparent reason.

[jasonluckydog]

Pics of the bitch? That will help make my decision.

[PhillyB]

sell all your poo. literally all of it. quit your job. put your money in a checking account and sign up for a VISA that allows cash withdrawal from ATMs. then pack a backpack with a few pairs of clothes, a few books, maybe a blank journal. buy a one-way ticket to Australia or somewhere you've never thought of going and wander.

i promise you this will fix what ails you, or at least serve as the catalyst to do so.

[Zcustom]

You've got to separate what's going on with what you are potentially missing out on, or compartmentalization as it's called.

Sure it sucks and you're all over the place but use what happened as a tool to ensure she doesn't ruin anything else for you.

it sounds cliche, and is, but every moment you spend wallowing in misery is a moment missed.

[Snake]

Thanks Berry man lol...

And Snake...yeah at the time I honestly had wanted to just about kill her, but we made amends at the very end of the event/convention...but that was the UNMISTAKABLY (< that is spelled right btw) THE MOST SELFISH ACT SHE COULD'VE DONE...I explained that to her afterwards...and I was completely over what happened...until she attended and had the time of her life...now I'm sitting here thinking about what joys "could've been"

Never try to be friends after someone dumps you. Its a good way to get kicked in the nuts trust me. Girls are pure evil after there done with you even if you didnt do anything wrong. The best advice I got from a friend one time and it made so much since after he said it was this. " In her mind its ALL YOUR FAULT that yall broke up" and this is why they do that crap. What can I say Girls are crazy and they only way to get rid of one or get one back is to date another.

[thefuzz]

Who goes to conventions?

[Davidson Deac II]

Never try to be friends after someone dumps you. Its a good way to get kicked in the nuts trust me. Girls are pure evil after there done with you even if you didnt do anything wrong. The best advice I got from a friend one time and it made so much since after he said it was this. " In her mind its ALL YOUR FAULT that yall broke up" and this is why they do that crap. What can I say Girls are crazy and they only way to get rid of one or get one back is to date another.

There are exceptions to that. For example, if she has a hot friend that you have thought about hooking up with, you stay friends long enough to make the attempt. If it doesn't work out with the friend, then you stop being friends with the X.

Seriously though, only reason to try to be friends or at least corgial is if you have kids. If not, no reason at all.