Heartbreak

[Miaoww]

Yep, I'm suffering from it.

You guys got any sensible tips for dealing with it?

Bit of background - been going out with this girl for a few months, thought things were going really well, then she turns around and says she's met somebody else. As you can imagine that's pretty much the worst kind of rejection ever - I can accept it if a girl rejects your advances, but this is a different matter entirely.

[Darth Biscuit]

It does suck man... and I know you've heard it before, but there's plenty of fish in the sea. Better now after just a few months than later.

I always used to get mad in situations like that... not the best way of dealing with it.

Internet porn helps...

Date some new girls... get back out there. Don't sit at home and be miserable.

[Jangler]

[Hawk]

time

keep yourself busy doing things that you like to do

and I'm sorry...she said she was single

[PanthaSan]

Sorry to hear that. Time does heal all and yes, it's better to have happen early as opposed to later.

The only thing that'll get you over old pvssy is NEW pvssy...

[JakeFlake]

enjoy doing the things you wanted to do for yourself but couldn't because you were in a relationship. Have some me-time for awhile and then get back in the saddle.

[Razzy]

That sucks dude, I've been there recently. Not as long as a relationship, but I still felt stabbed in back.

Pick up a new hobby or focus on a current one, keep busy. Anytime she pops into your head focus only on her negative qualities. Try and find a new girl, or hang out with a platonic female friend.

[Samuel L. Jackson]

Broken hearts suck ass...

That said, there ARE plenty of fish in the sea...

Just keep yourself occupied for now, and move along... No sense on wasting time on someone who wouldn't waste it WITH you...

[Matt Foley]

Forward, forward, forward. Don't look back at all the things you liked about her. Start a list of all the things she did that bugged you. Right now, you're probably saying "but there wasn't anything." Believe me, I know, everyone says that. Then by this time tomorrow you'll have a couple of items on there. Then two days from now you'll have several items, then you'll start seeing this list with your head and that you really let your heart lead you into the deep end. In the meantime, share all of the nude pics of her you have with me. I will point out the imperfections to you, to help you with your list.

[cookinwithgas]

I absolutely fell in love with a woman I met several years ago. I knew she had recently broken up with a guy....we met New Years Eve day, went out for that night and I just absolutely fell head over heels for her.

What I didn't know is that she got back together with the other guy and decided not to say anything, just slowly backing off and acting kind of weird.

I could not see it happening, I still spent nights with her but they were fewer and farther between. When i finally figured it out, I was absolutely inconsolable - it was worse than my divorce. For months I was mopey, my friends were going nuts listening to me, then she'd call out of the blue and I got to thinking that she wanted to get back together...it was total misery.

And the only thing that could save me was ME deciding to just forget it.

And here I am about to get married to a fantastic woman whom I love deeply and completely and still I do think about this other woman from time to time - but really only because I want to know why she would treat me like she did.

It passes. Friends help a LOT. Being alone thinking about it does not.

[Johnny Rockets]

enjoy doing the things you wanted to do for yourself but couldn't because you were in a relationship. .

One should never be in such a relationship.....unless one of the things you wanted to do for yourself but couldn't was other women. That is understandable.

[JakeFlake]

One should never be in such a relationship.....unless one of the things you wanted to do for yourself but couldn't was other women. That is understandable.

valid.

[Hawk]

Forward, forward, forward. Don't look back at all the things you liked about her. Start a list of all the things she did that bugged you.

ya...like finding someone else would be a good place to start that list!

[Matt Foley]

I absolutely fell in love with a woman I met several years ago. I knew she had recently broken up with a guy....we met New Years Eve day, went out for that night and I just absolutely fell head over heels for her.

What I didn't know is that she got back together with the other guy and decided not to say anything, just slowly backing off and acting kind of weird.

I could not see it happening, I still spent nights with her but they were fewer and farther between. When i finally figured it out, I was absolutely inconsolable - it was worse than my divorce. For months I was mopey, my friends were going nuts listening to me, then she'd call out of the blue and I got to thinking that she wanted to get back together...it was total misery.

And the only thing that could save me was ME deciding to just forget it.

And here I am about to get married to a fantastic woman whom I love deeply and completely and still I do think about this other woman from time to time - but really only because I want to know why she would treat me like she did.

It passes. Friends help a LOT. Being alone thinking about it does not.

Still can't believe Rodeo did you like that.