Trying to have a kid

[Samuel L. Jackson]

dude

Hey, that doctor had some nice tittayz!

For real though, that whole experience was creepy, but funny as hell...

[jasonluckydog]

If you need any help just let me know..pics of the wife needed 1st.

[ItsNotGonnaBeAlright]

Just remember this... Don't try too hard, or it will take an emotional toll on both of you if it doesn't work out...

Enjoy time around each other, and let the chances of getting pregnant be what they are...

Its not that we're trying too hard. Its just that I've wanted to be a father as long as I can remember. She's wanted to be a mother even longer than that. All we've done is reorganize our lives for the past year so that we can get to a point financially and physically that we can handle growing the family. Then we stopped buying condoms once we felt we were there. As I understand it, the rest is kinda out of our hands.

Now its just the anxiety of waiting. Bleh....

Although, now that you mention jacking off in a cup, a trip to a fertility expert doesn't sound nearly as intimidating and humorless.

[Samuel L. Jackson]

Hahaha yeah... they had porn and magazines... but it is nerve wrecking because all I could think about is the people outside knowing what I was doing in there...

[cookinwithgas]

Just do it all the time and eventually it will work, if not then adoption is great, dont worry about this stuff

[Matt Foley]

Hahaha yeah... they had porn and magazines... but it is nerve wrecking because all I could think about is the people outside knowing what I was doing in there...

They always knew with you, though. Why was this day special?

[ncdrifter]

my wife took robitussin when we were "trying" it worked. my son is 2, and the greatest thing that ever happened to me

Does he cough all the time?

[Henne Given Sunday]

Does he cough all the time?

never. but hes drowsy all the fuging time

[charlotte49er]

my wife took robitussin when we were "trying" it worked. my son is 2, and the greatest thing that ever happened to me

That's good even if she is on the pill.

If your wife exercises on a regular basis, have her stop or slack off. Strenuous exercising can cause a woman to loose her period and affects her hormones. Plus babies need a certain amount of body fat on the woman.

There are certain times of the month that are better to get pregnant than others. Have her find out when she is ovulating.

http://www.webmd.com/baby/healthtool-ovulation-calculator

Do you drink Caffeine soda or coffee? Caffeine can stimulate your sperm. Like going from lazy sperm to super charged sperm!

[Razzy]

Good luck! I for one do not plan on having children for a long, long time. I still have to meet the right girl. Granted I'm only 20.

[Carolina Husker]

The funny part is, we had just started going to a fertility specialist, and I had already had to suffer the humility of having to jack off in a cup right in front of the doctor...

Meat does this daily, but the "cup" is a gym sock and the "doctor" is his dog.

[The Saltman]

Relax. Me and my wife thought it would take us a bit so we didnt stress about it. Come to find out I got her pregnant in 2 weeks. You will never know what is going to happen so just relax. Let it be a chill experience or youll always remember how stressed u were. Now my girl is 2 months old, mind you it isnt easy, but the best thing that ever happened to me. GoodLuck :thumbsup: