A more fair statement...

[Go To Girl]

and you never knew the one I did -

[AKPantherFan]

People had a chance to tell their stories in that other thread and if anyone hinted there might have been something more to things, they were told that kind of talk was inappropriate and to talk about it in another thread. Zod was brave enough to start that thread. I read your stories without comment. Now it's my turn to tell my story. I've got a whole lot more, but am choosing to keep them to myself.

well you will get no sympathy from me..

dont show up and post in months-- now the man is dead- and you and others are throwing a pity party..

I know you and zod (ohh so brave) Dont like/respect/care FOR HIM- so why do i care about your opinions?

ohh well

[Squirrel]

i honestly give 2 poos about the horses... And honestly its because you never knew the man I did..

Since we are discussing things. How do you really know someone sure you talked to them a couple times over the phone or message board but do you really know them? This is directed at anybody but I was curious. I have met probably 10 people from this board and I can honestly say that I really dont know any of them except what they want me to know about them. It isnt like we see the good and bad sides of people here. Most of the times when we do meet we put on a good face but you never learn the other side of people.

[AKPantherFan]

and you never knew the one I did -

well i like me, i think i am a good person, and he liked me- so i feel good about that

[AKPantherFan]

Since we are discussing things. How do you really know someone sure you talked to them a couple times over the phone or message board but do you really know them? This is directed at anybody but I was curious. I have met probably 10 people from this board and I can honestly say that I really dont know any of them accept what they want me to know about them. It isnt like we see the good and bad sides of people here. Most of the times when we do meet we put on a good face better you never learn the other side of people.

hmmm-- i guess i will take your loaded question and raise you= how do you have any idea about the things we spoke about, and what I know. Our Friendship started when we met, and every time I was back for a game he was there.

:nono:

but i get what your saying

[Kurb]

AK doesn't care about peoples opinions, yet continues to debate.

FTW

[AKPantherFan]

AK doesn't care about peoples opinions, yet continues to debate.

FTW

Im just taking up for a dead man against the "huddle click" who he did not like..

Cant say I dont blame him..

Too bad he isnt here to take up for himself... Evidently folks had a lot less to say when he was alive.

:cuss:

[5158Poundin]

well you will get no sympathy from me..

dont show up and post in months-- now the man is dead- and you and others are throwing a pity party..

I know you and zod (ohh so brave) Dont like/respect/care FOR HIM- so why do i care about your opinions?

ohh well

Do you ever really stop long enough to read and understand WHY some people have stopped posting on this board?

Some folks are just tired of drama or have their own lives to live and posting on the huddle isn't always priority 1.

Sheesh, I know you don't give a rat's ass but come on - you talk about being disrespectful yet you APPEAR to get bent out of shape when someone has a different perspective.

I see you casting judgments just cause someone does not agree and you're being disrespectful.

Be honorable here and understand that not everyone has the same experience.

[ThPantherFan]

Have I had an education! It saddens me to read how many sides there were to this man. I am very close with a few Huddlers and my heart hurts knowing what has happened over the years. I have to say I didn't know fully the dark side. I, like many other posters, saw much of the banter as just that, banter. I never realized that deliberate threats had been made. Everyone has their personal feelings about this and I respect all of them.

Well, I have a lot I could add but will not. I am closing out of all this now. I have paid my respects to the family. I have made my statements. I only knew one side, obviously. Anytime a person takes his life, it hurts many people.

I love my Huddle mates and they have been a great outlet for me at times. I hope I never read another post like this again. Life is short. If at all possible learn to forgive and love.

[Go To Girl]

AK - if you don't like what's being said in here, then just leave it or just don't comment. I didn't like what was being said in the other thread and that's exactly what I did.

But the whole thing just makes you think - we've got the benevolent, generous guy and we've got the guy who was unstable and made threats. And now both of those guys are gone. Based on the way he went out, I wonder which guy was real and which was a facade........

[AKPantherFan]

Do you ever really stop long enough to read and understand WHY some people have stopped posting on this board?

Some folks are just tired of drama or have their own lives to live and posting on the huddle isn't always priority 1.

Sheesh, I know you don't give a rat's ass but come on - you talk about being disrespectful yet you APPEAR to get bent out of shape when someone has a different perspective.

I see you casting judgments just cause someone does not agree and you're being disrespectful.

Be honorable here and understand that not everyone has the same experience.

Maybe Its because i got clif's version of the story..

I will honor the man who lost his life, instead of throwing blows at a dead man.

[The Link]

Even in death, there is a shitstorm.

[AKPantherFan]

AK - if you don't like what's being said in here, then just leave it or just don't comment. I didn't like what was being said in the other thread and that's exactly what I did.

But the whole thing just makes you think - we've got the benevolent, generous guy and we've got the guy who was unstable and made threats. And now both of those guys are gone. Based on the way he went out, I wonder which guy was real and which was a facade........

why dont you just say it so you can feel better?

"i told you so"

make sure you say it during prayers at church on Sunday.

Miss Goody two shoes wins!!!!

good for you Connie- good for you..

I hope you feel better.

You win...

[5158Poundin]

Maybe Its because i got clif's version of the story..

I will honor the man who lost his life, instead of throwing blows at a dead man.

I don't question your friendship nor your loyalty to him.

I don't think it's fair to lambast someone who was not on the receiving end of his generosity and lighter side.

He made his friendships here, that is clear. But he also left a legacy of darkness with others and I have done my best not to dishonor a man who is not even in the ground.

I didn't know him well and did not claim to either. But I remember his alter ego and it was a troubling side to him. I hope he's at peace and I pray for his family to have solace in this.

Let's not continue to throw rocks at people because they do not know the same person you call a friend.