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I’m getting married


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18 hours ago, The NFL Shield At Midfield said:

iirc Igor, perhaps best known for using pictures of his turds as a debate tactic, admitted that the Ludwig account was him

Haha I was just getting ready to say either Ludwig or Igor. 

Not sure how I missed Igor saying he was Ludwig. I know Igor had a few accounts like @Farachlombardi.

Whoever it was....yeah the OP sure sounds like one of them.

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On 2/8/2020 at 1:23 PM, 4Corners said:

If you are telling the truth your marriage won’t make it two years. 

Yup. 
if you have something to get out of your system you need to do it, figure it out, over time, before marriage, and before even having a long term relationship.

This even being an idea for you guys tells me you’re both immature as hell and need to probably break go your separate ways and just have fun. Nothing wrong with waiting until mid or late 30s before settling or never at all.

If you’re meant to be together it’ll work out later down the road. Marriage isn’t about containing your sexual appetite for variety lol that’s insane. But that’s also never going to go away or change for some. So what marriage is about in that regard is to mitigate it. Meaning finding someone you’re sexually compatible with, being open about what you want.

In doing so you may find that what you want is options and thus you find marriage isn’t for you in general. Or you may find an ‘open’ type relationship or marriage which is perfectly fine despite societies views to pressure otherwise.

What isn’t ok is to think you you need get something out of your system (no matter what it is, it never is a short term thing; what if that ‘thing your system’ really just turns out to be...well...YOU), to think marriage is sexually confining (a parter should be sexually liberating).

This marriage won’t last and this may be tough to hear but you need to mature, have a lot of time to ‘get it out’ and to actually know yourself and what you want. This situation tells me you don’t have any of these things.

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On 2/8/2020 at 12:43 PM, Mister said:

And for my bachelor party my fiancé  is allowing me to sleep with other women just for that week and a half  but they can’t live in my town and the only bad thing she asked for her to do the same as well . I got two weeks off from work so I’m going to the Dominican Republic and Thailand and she’s going with her girls to Russia . What you guys think about the idea me and my fiancé have about getting everything out of your system before marriage so no cheating occurs ? 

Dude. This is so not cool.

If all of this is true then your wedding needs to be postponed & you two need some relationship counseling, pronto.

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