Me and the gf broke up

[Shocker]

13 hours ago, pennywise said:

Whats her name? Phone number? IG? Address? And any pictures?

 

ever heard of women having the two “p”s. A pulse and the other p you can take a guess. Not the “p”enis one tho. The other p. Women bitchhh all the time. Deal with the emotions. At least she aint riding some other guy while with you. or is she? 

 

But foreal. Any pictures and her ig?

[Shocker]

Just now, pennywise said:

Not Brittney. I mean ur ex. Picture?

Here ya go grasshopper...

[Shocker]

2 minutes ago, pennywise said:

Cmon man foreal

What?  That’s my ex...Bubbles

[Dex]

Dated a beautiful sweet girl that was way out of my league for over 7 years. Didn't think I'd ever recover. Three years later I'm the happiest I've ever been, successful and at peace mentally. Sometimes things just don't work out. It's not the end of the world and you will be fine in time. Hang in there!

 

Advice: Get yourself in the gym to regain your confidence and then get out there and slay some hot poon in the interim.

[Lumps]

On 7/2/2019 at 10:15 AM, thefuzz said:

Pro tips for all you youngsters out there.

1:  That saying about fish in the sea...it's right, there are TONS of women out there.

2:  If she doesn't have friends....like real friends...leave her alone.

3:  It's just as easy to love a rich one as a poor one.

I used to say stuff like this, now I dislike advice like this. I realized the human connection and personal relationships are just too complex for it. You just never know who might be your best match, if you have one, and to that I say have an open mind or you might miss out.

My one and only true advice for the dating world is to take it slow and figure yourself out. Interact with as many people similar or different than yourself. American, foreign. Even if you might not think you’ll like it, do it.

The more you do that the quicker you’ll figure yourself out, or maybe not I have learned the hard way, and taken a lot of time figuring myself out. And some people never do and that’s ok. It’s ok to realize you are happier alone. We aren’t all in this box of happiness relying in a relationship.

Fact of the matter is saying we’re trying to ‘find a person we truly want’ is not as simple as the sentiment itself.

Tale your time, go through the motions. Listen to yourself. Do not ever been pressured to make a decision or choice and if you are move on. But above all learn yourself and what you want. That takes time for everyone and I can tell you right now in your 20s, you don’t know what that is yet I believe no one does until later in life. I believe it takes years and years to learn that.

And there is proof. People choosing to get married or stay single around the mid/late thirties, rarely regret their decisions, financially more successful, better prepared for things like children OR no children, have strong commitments and are happiest. People rushing to decisions are unhappiest and regret their decisions. Shown by many factors (cheating, divorce, break ups) and the majority of this group are largely people making these decisions before maturing in life. The differences are so drastic but are ignored because we as humans are weak to emotions telling us otherwise, that we are different. But...we’re not.

Focus and learn yourself and realize no matter what your mind says now it’s not ready. Allow yourself to mentality mature and realize that what will make you happy will always be there for you in the end when you figure it out.

[Ja Rhule]

There are 2 types of women:

1.  You want to get in her pants

2. You want to get in her pants and stay her pants

 

I had a ton of gf who were dating material but not wife material.  It’s important to know the difference.  When I met my wife, I knew she was the one even before we begun dating or anything.

[SmokinwithWilly]

16 hours ago, ARSEN said:

There are 2 types of women:

1.  You want to get in her pants

2. You want to get in her pants and stay her pants

 

I had a ton of gf who were dating material but not wife material.  It’s important to know the difference.  When I met my wife, I knew she was the one even before we begun dating or anything.

3 types bro. 

3rd one. You don't want to get in her pants but if she gives you a hummer  that's good enough and you know you're not going to see/talk to her again. 

[hepcat]

I went through a rough breakup back in my early/mid 20's. 3 yrs together on and off. First love type situation for both of us. When it was finally over for good it messed me up for awhile afterward. But life goes on. Time heals your wounds and you move on. 

And looking back, man am I glad I did. My ex is a crazy bitch who never got over our relationship. She texted me a tirade about how I don't deserve love and she threatened my then fiance with violence when she found out I got engaged. 5 YEARS AFTER WE BROKE UP.

[Rubi]

First 2 weeks after a break up suck. But that sting eventually fades. Best advice that helped me before is to do your heavy squats and bench press at the gym, clean your apartment/house, buy some new clothes and get on bumble.

Hitting that reset button does wonders. 

[MountaineerChemist10]

Be thankful you decided to go ahead & end the relationship rather than get married & hope for the best. My current wife (now separated) was a great match for me, but had lots of mental issues including severe anxiety & depression, loss of family members & still had trouble getting over her high school ex. But she was beautiful, smart & accepted me despite my own issues so I took a chance. Turns out she was simply using me "unintentionally" to cosign her student loans (her credit score sucks balls), needed a shoulder to cry on & thought a beautiful wedding was the solution. Nope. I know, i'm a dumbass 

Before you start your next relationship, do the following first:

1) Make tons of new friends

2) Start a new hobby or two

3) Spend more time with family. They may not be around much longer.

4) Decide if you'd like to attend grad school. If so, do it now. If not, build & maintain a great career

5) If one night stand, then always use protection. No matter what. One kid = An additional $10,000 in expenses per year.

You can still date, but take your time before you start a new relationship. It'll be hard to get over her, but you'll get there. Keep Pounding brotha.

Oh, & counseling or therapy definitely does help when needed. Been there, done that & I now feel 1000% better 

 

[LinvilleGorge]

I wish a kid only cost $10k per year.

[Ja Rhule]

7 hours ago, LinvilleGorge said:

I wish a kid only cost $10k per year.

I got 4.  I stopped counting the cost.