I mean....

[t96]

1 hour ago, TheRed said:

Oh shut up you jock sniffer.

Are you insinuating that I'm gay?

[Ja Rhule]

1 hour ago, thomas96 said:

I was raised to respect women. I would never have touched a "Mrs. Robinson" teacher. It's a shame if you're so closed-minded that you "put less than zero stock in my opinion."

You say it now... But after bonner you no longer make decision.

[TheRed]

5 minutes ago, thomas96 said:

Are you insinuating that I'm gay?

Only if you want me to cutie.

[t96]

1 hour ago, ARSEN said:

You say it now... But after bonner you no longer make decision.

I never had a Mrs Robinson opportunity, but I did have opportunities with some girlfriends in high school and college. Never did it until I got married. Not religious reasons, that's just how I felt and feel about it. Never made decisions with my "thing."

 

As for my thoughts on the topic: Of course many teenage boys will want it and do it if given the opportunity. However, the brain doesn't develop until 25 and a sexual relationship between a teacher and student can have tremendous effects on how the young boy or girl views relationships and can affect the development of the brain. Whether it was consensual or not is completely irrelevant. There should be harsh legal consequences for the teacher in these circumstances, but of course with each case being handled individually.

[PhillyB]

16 is 16 regardless of gender. khyber nailed it - the only reason we appropriate child molestation any differently is because at our cultural core we want our daughters to be pure and unblemished and our sons to go blemish as much pure poontang as possible.

it's a tough attitude to wipe out since it's so engrained and normalized, but it's the key to stopping the culturally laissez-faire we take towards it

[Kevin Greene]

4 minutes ago, PhillyB said:

16 is 16 regardless of gender. khyber nailed it - the only reason we appropriate child molestation any differently is because at our cultural core we want our daughters to be pure and unblemished and our sons to go blemish as much pure poontang as possible.

it's a tough attitude to wipe out since it's so engrained and normalized, but it's the key to stopping the culturally laissez-faire we take towards it

Yep.

Certainly Jeremy's attitude would be different if it was his boys and say it was a male teacher they were gettin' busy with.

[PhillyB]

1 minute ago, Kevin Greene said:

Yep.

Certainly Jeremy's attitude would be different if it was his boys and say it was a male teacher they were gettin' busy with.

in fairness to jeremy i have my doubts he's entirely serious... but the fact that we can make jokes about it at all is a commentary all by itself imo

[CarolinaNCSU]

Teaching at a high school, this is something I'll never understand. Why on Earth some teachers think a kid is going to keep a relationship quiet with you...when they're constantly on their phones/social media and gossiping anyway trying to impress their friends? Be smarter. 

Also weird, I'd say more inappropriate comments are made towards male teachers (in my situation at least), while the female teachers are typically the ones being caught actually acting on something. Or at least cases reported reflect that, because "hot 24 year old teacher seduces 16 year old boy" plays into the media narrative and mindset so many have ingrained in them to want from their years of daydreaming about the hot teacher. 

[Jeremy Igo]

10 hours ago, PhillyB said:

16 is 16 regardless of gender. khyber nailed it - the only reason we appropriate child molestation any differently is because at our cultural core we want our daughters to be pure and unblemished and our sons to go blemish as much pure poontang as possible.

it's a tough attitude to wipe out since it's so engrained and normalized, but it's the key to stopping the culturally laissez-faire we take towards it

If you don't think sex is emotionally different for a 16 year old boy vs girl..... you haven't been paying attention. 

[imminent rogaine]

12 hours ago, TheRed said:

I put less than zero stock in the opinion of any male who says he wouldn't have laid some pipe if presented with the same opportunity at that age.

Just look at how successful the "teenage boy in high school tries desperately to get laid for the first time" genre in Hollywood has been over the years.

Yeah, spare me the moral outrage.

I'm with you here. I understand it is a double standard but I think male and females are at different places mentally and emotionally at that point in life... physically too (if a guy wants to have sex with a girl, history has shown us that there isn't much that can stop him physically....not the case if the woman is the aggressor.)  While its not impossible, its got to be hard to take advantage of a willing male that is the one doing the poking. Its not like she was sodomizing them....

I'm about 10 years removed from highschool and remember having like 5 or 6 teachers that I would have had no issue being in this type of scenario with.  I think as women age, they get more comfortable with the fact that they just want to bone and there isn't anything wrong with that.... Guys understand this from an early age.

[Panthro]

39 minutes ago, Jeremy Igo said:

If you don't think sex is emotionally different for a 16 year old boy vs girl..... you haven't been paying attention. 

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There are some 14 year olds who are more emotionally mature that some 25-30 year olds but basing it on emotion is very much a one off and not even gender specific. At what age are you ok with having an adult sexually and emotionally manipulate your child for their gain. 

 

[Jeremy Igo]

3 hours ago, Panthro said:

There are some 14 year olds who are more emotionally mature that some 25-30 year olds but basing it on emotion is very much a one off and not even gender specific. At what age are you ok with having an adult sexually and emotionally manipulate your child for their gain. 

 

I am ok with16 and 17 year old guys having relations with hot women, but only if they are hot. 

 

If they are ugly.... whole different matter. That could scar them for life. 

[Panthro]

they certainly wont find any on a messageboard

[PhillyB]

4 hours ago, Jeremy Igo said:

If you don't think sex is emotionally different for a 16 year old boy vs girl..... you haven't been paying attention. 

biologically or culturally?