Choosing between two women

[Lumps]

Dump them both. Trust me.

[TNPanther]

Are you currently banging both of them? I've been in a similar situation and it blew up in my face. Granted it was in college but still. The only question is, does #2 seem clingy? She seems cool from what you describe and if she has cool friends that's a huge plus. If she doesn't seem like she has the potential to be stage 5 I'd roll with #2 and either friend zone or dump #1.

[pantherclaw]

#2 sounds like the long term winner. 

[Chimera]

Nurses tend to have a high burn out rate, over eat, then become angry at the world. In 20 years, she'll lop off her hair, wear loose fitting shirts and yoga pants. While being completely dependent on you for her survival, she'll make mutual decisions exclusively and overrule you on everything. If that's what you're into, go with #1.

[ncdrifter]

They are both great choices but for different reasons.  I've been seeing them both simultaneously for about 2-3 months.  

#1 is 24, fresh out of nursing school, very attractive, easy going personality (I can't really see us fighting about anything), close with her family and very grounded.  Negative is she's a little on the naive side and she doesn't really have that many friends.  But, I feel like that's circumstantial because she works a lot and hasn't been in town very long.  I think I could bring her out of her shell a bit.  She's also kind of a shopaholic and always buys new clothes.  Type of girl that goes to the mall a lot.  But she makes her own money so I don't see an issue with it.  I could see her not being ready for something long-term but at the same time she's mentioned how she wants to get married one day to me a few times (not like me specifically but in general)

#2 is 30, works in sales for a kitchen company, not as hot as the nurse but still very cute, very independent, we get along extremely well.  She's a great cook, very sweet (surprises me with little gifts), has a very big social circle.  I enjoy our time together.  She's definitely what I'd say is more traditionally "my kind of girl" as in she's similar to girls I've dated before, but she's way more about getting married, having a family, settling down than the nurse.  Probably because she just turned 30. She's definitely more into me than I'm into her but that's not saying I'm not into her too.

I don't have to make a decision yet but #2 is definitely starting to press about being exclusive and being "official".  Not like overtly but dropping subtle hints like saying things are "ours" and wanting to make advance plans 3+ months from now.  #1 has been super laid back about it all, but I know if I asked her to be my GF she'd say yes.  

[pstall]

The one you miss the most is the one.

[chknwing]

Arsen chose his left hand over his right hand

[Cuttinedge]

I don't mean to be crude but which one swallows?

Dam I need a intervention or some kind of exorcism. Cause I'm thinking just like Dex.  

When I read this thread earlier today my first thought was "always pick the swallower". 

[Hawk]

what kind of asshole starts a thread like this without pics?  fug you man!!!!!

 

that said....which one has the softest forehead?

[pstall]

John Madden would say if you have two qbs you don't have one. Same with women.

[sharkkiller]

I think i said this in another thread, but you should pick the one you think about when you are with the other one.

[R0CKnR0LLA]

If you have to ask the huddle then the answer is probably neither.

[BettyBangzer]

Do you want to get married in the next 1-2 years? Then #2. If not, then you should let her go and just bang on #1 until you get tired of her.

[Goondal]

Which one is making you choose? Pick the other Seriously though, if you are interested in "til death" then #2. If you are not or are not sure then #1.