Choosing between two women

[hepcat]

They are both great choices but for different reasons.  I've been seeing them both simultaneously for about 2-3 months.  

#1 is 24, fresh out of nursing school, very attractive, easy going personality (I can't really see us fighting about anything), close with her family and very grounded.  Negative is she's a little on the naive side and she doesn't really have that many friends.  But, I feel like that's circumstantial because she works a lot and hasn't been in town very long.  I think I could bring her out of her shell a bit.  She's also kind of a shopaholic and always buys new clothes.  Type of girl that goes to the mall a lot.  But she makes her own money so I don't see an issue with it.  I could see her not being ready for something long-term but at the same time she's mentioned how she wants to get married one day to me a few times (not like me specifically but in general)

#2 is 30, works in sales for a kitchen company, not as hot as the nurse but still very cute, very independent, we get along extremely well.  She's a great cook, very sweet (surprises me with little gifts), has a very big social circle.  I enjoy our time together.  She's definitely what I'd say is more traditionally "my kind of girl" as in she's similar to girls I've dated before, but she's way more about getting married, having a family, settling down than the nurse.  Probably because she just turned 30. She's definitely more into me than I'm into her but that's not saying I'm not into her too.

I don't have to make a decision yet but #2 is definitely starting to press about being exclusive and being "official".  Not like overtly but dropping subtle hints like saying things are "ours" and wanting to make advance plans 3+ months from now.  #1 has been super laid back about it all, but I know if I asked her to be my GF she'd say yes.  

[rhyslloyd]

Pics or stfu.

[Jeremy Igo]

Have you tried getting these two ladies together and see what kind of magic happens?

[Panthro]

Based on that...go with #2.

Being that she has an established circle of friends she is choosing to be with you while #1 is new to town and your just a stopping point until her circle gets bigger.

[hepcat]

Have you tried getting these two ladies together and see what kind of magic happens?

I'm sure you'd love to photograph that

[Jeremy Igo]

I'm sure you'd love to photograph that

Who says I havent already?

[PhillyB]

definitely number two. number one sounds boring tbh

[thefuzz]

Coming from the married guys, no. 2 seems like a better option, especially if it's just a short term thing for you.

 

That said, don't play with a 30 year old woman's mind.  If she wants to get married in a couple years, explain exactly how you feel about that before moving forward.

[hepcat]

Who says I havent already?

Scandalous

[Dex]

I don't mean to be crude but which one swallows?

[Jangler]

If #2 can really cook, your choice should be easier. 

[rayzor]

 

[PandaPancake]

California king. Problem solved.

 

Also helps if you're rich to keep two women

[Squirrel]

No reason to pick polygamy will be legal shortly.