Found my ex online - time to get even ?

[cardiackat88.]

This is the kind of ***** who stays with you just for a monthly check from the department of defense. Once that was coming to a close she found new meat. One time her dumb ass dog was chasing ducks around a hole in some ice on a frozen lake. Then the dumb bastard dove into the water after them , swam around for a few minutes panicked and started trying to get out of the water but couldnt - his paws kept sliding off - this god damn dog was toast if somebody didnt do something and she and I both knew it. This was a dog that I had no attachment to - it was hers and had been a gift from an old boyfriend of hers. But dumb ass me I slide way the fug out to the middle of this god damn frozen lake on my belly with my arms and legs spread as wide as I could and pull this animal of hers out of deaths grip as I hear the Ice cracking around me. 2 months or so later I am taking the dog for a walk along the Ohio River for her while she is working - I lose track of the dog after he runs off, but find him 20 or so minutes later laying on the bank of the river having some sort of seizure. So I pick this friggin 80 pound plus fugger up and carry his ass about 2 miles back to her house and my car and race off to the vet with him. Of course I notify her to let her know what happened and leave to go home to get something to eat - she shows up at my apartment like 2 hours later screaming like she just got out of the mental hospital that I had knocked her dog out with a stick/ and or poisoned him. No amount of convincing that I had done no such thing would satisfy the bitch.

Sorry but you sound like a total punk ass pushover.

[Mr. Scot]

Based on what you've said dude, your best option is to give her info to the police, tell them whst she's done, and let it go.

 

Seriously.  You're letting her own you.

[setzer2030]

This is the kind of ***** who stays with you just for a monthly check from the department of defense. 

Isn't this the case with 90% of military relationships? The fact that you're writing a book for every post in this thread makes it seem like this is your main purpose in life.  Think about how short life is, and how much of it you're wasting on hoping to "get someone back." I used to hold grudges. None of them were worth it.

[Davidson Deac II]

You guys dont know this **** hole like I do.  As recently as 7 years ago I started getting phone calls from bill collectors demanding money for a car she bought.  When I told them I had been divorced for over 20 years they still kept harassing me demanding to know where she was.  She apparently still had/has my social security number and used it to get credit to buy a car and then skipped the state she was living in taking the car with her.  The collectors even started calling my elderly parents hasselling them.  I had to put a lock on my credit that is still in place, which makes applying for any sort of loan or job a major pain in the ass.  

 

They want to know where she is at, and you said you have her address.  Give it to them.  Revenge had, and then get over it. 

[Khyber53]

There is no scenario for revenge that would get back the 30 years of your life, only things that would keep her stealing more years of your life. Whether it is love, regret, hurt or anger, it's just an obsession. Set that big-ass piece of luggage right now and walk away from it.

 

Let her go and if the bill collectors call just say, sorry, don't know her anymore.

 

You've been sitting in a cage for 30 years even though the door was never latched. Go, live your life man! Enjoy it and have a ball. That's the best and only safe revenge.

 

[Davidson Deac II]

I found my ex's facebook site last year.  She is now on her 5th husband and from what I understand is already going thru a divorce with him.  And she got fat.  We were married around 26 years ago, and I mostly feel sorry for her now because she is a deeply troubled woman, but I did feel some very slight satisfaction at her predicament. 

[Paa Langfart]

So I take that most of you guys like getting fuged in the ass and ask for more.  Nice.

[Mr. Scot]

So I take that most of you guys like getting fuged in the ass and ask for more.  Nice.

 

As opposed to letting someone rule my life for 30 years?

 

Dude, you're giving her way too much power over you.  Give her info to the cops and move on.

 

[Paa Langfart]

No body rules my life but me.  I just dont forgive and forget as easily as some of you seem to.  I have not and do not obsess over what has happened in my past.  In fact prior to finding some old legal documents a few days ago, I hadnt thought about the ex for several years  - but when I did my curiosity was raised and I had to google her - and the information came very easily.

 

My opinion is that turning the other cheek when youve been fuged over repeatedly by a sociopath is a sign of moral and spiritual weakness.  I dont care how long it has been.   YMMV

[London Loves Luke]

So I take that most of you guys like getting fuged in the ass and ask for more. Nice.

You're really not understanding what anyone is saying to you are you? This woman has Mindfuged you for the last 30 years. That's just sad man. Write a couple of letters, call the right people to sort out your credit situation and move on with your life.

[London Loves Luke]

No body rules my life but me. I just dont forgive and forget as easily as some of you seem to. I have not and do not obsess over what has happened in my past. In fact prior to finding some old legal documents a few days ago, I hadnt thought about the ex for several years - but when I did my curiosity was raised and I had to google her - and the information came very easily.

My opinion is that turning the other cheek when youve been fuged over repeatedly by a sociopath is a sign of moral and spiritual weakness. I dont care how long it has been. YMMV

Turning the other cheek towards women is part of being a man. If it's a sign of weakness to you, you are confused fella.

[Carolina Husker]

Do it and post it here.

[Paa Langfart]

Turning the other cheek towards women is part of being a man. If it's a sign of weakness to you, you are confused fella.

 

 

bullfugginshit

[ncmonzta]

We parted on less than good terms.  She really fuged me over in more ways than one. I was in the service and while deployed she fuged around,  ruined my credit and reputation in general in addition to breaking my heart.  It s been over 30 years but I am still holding a very big grudge.  Now I have her address and phone number and know where she works.

 

Anyone have any advice on getting even ?

Dad, is that you?