Found my ex online - time to get even ?

[Paa Langfart]

We parted on less than good terms.  She really fuged me over in more ways than one. I was in the service and while deployed she fuged around,  ruined my credit and reputation in general in addition to breaking my heart.  It s been over 30 years but I am still holding a very big grudge.  Now I have her address and phone number and know where she works.

 

Anyone have any advice on getting even ?

[The Saltman]

Move on, bitches aren't worth it.

[Jimmy]

Nothing good would ever come from it. At the least she gets mad at you (which didn't seem to bother her 30 years ago)...at worst we see you on the news. Either way nothing changes for her and only bad happens for you. 30 years...let it go!

[Cary Kollins]

sign her up for random junk mail and pizza deliveries?

[Mr. Scot]

Anyone have any advice on getting even ?

 

Yes.

 

Don't.

 

Holding on to the grudge means you're essentially allowing her to own you.  And even after 30 years?  Ouch.

 

PF is right.  Let it go.

 

[KSpan]

Agree with the above - you've already wasted 30 years carrying a grudge. Don't waste any more time on her or the past.

[Anybodyhome]

Been there, done that and know what you went through.

 

But we all move on and realize there's a lot better life out there as long as we live it on our own terms and not someone else's. You're allowing her to interfere with your life, so either move on or kill her. 

One way ends well for you for the rest of your life, the other way ends with you remembering her for the rest of your life. 

[Jangler]

Hook up and then pee in her butt.

[Hotsauce]

[captfluoro]

The best revenge is being successful and then she can see what she missed.  But I agree with everyone else, move on.

[PhillyB]

if 30 years later you're pissed enough to want revenge, you'll never out-revenge the fact that she owns your ass.

[Sean Payton's Vicodin]

yeah, seek therapy

[The NFL Shield At Midfield]

well i'd super duper not advise doing anything now because you've gone on a public internet message board and talked about it

[Lumps]

If it's been 30 years and you're still mad, she's already won no matter what you do.

Accept losing and move on.