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Ok so I met this girl, I've been with a lot of girls and I always thought the girl

I'd settle down with was less experienced. This girl has been with a lot of guys though but the problem is our compatibility, we're crazy for one another, totally get along and feel so comfortable around one another it's creepy. Spending the day looking at one another wondering what could be is fun, but the negative is the downfall will be so much harder.

At the same time I have another girl I'm seeing, doesn't have the body of the first girl or the attractiveness going on but in the intellectual department she is unmatched we connect intellectual so well just spending the day talking is so much fun.

Then there's that third girl who intellectually isn't there and attraction isn't quite there either but sexually it's like one person exists. Our sex is the best ever, it will never get better. When you're away all you do is crave the sex but you know there is not intellectual or physical attraction and the relationship is doomed for failure regardless of sex.

Which do you chose and why? Attraction as a feeling of potential, intellectual compatibility that will never end, or as straight up sex and physical compatibility?

Keep in mind you chose one and you lose the others.

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Which one has the most money? I'd pick that girl.

Now this is something that definitely doesn't matter to me but the sex girl has the best future, attractive and experienced girl is next but he intellectual is educated...and she is Asian, might make a difference to you haha.

Keep around the first one until you meet someone else or say fug it and settle because you're not getting any younger.

The first one, huh? Interesting take because the first one is the newest of the bunch...sex is still in the primitive stages and the future is exciting yet unknown and attractiveness is there but man she has just been with so many guys hard to trust anything at this point. Do you guys care about a girls' experience? I usually don't even touch a girl who goes beyond my 'reasonable' number. I mean are standards even allowed now days?

Why must you settle on one of those three? Keep searching for she who is attractive, is good in bed, and with whom you connect intellectually.

Otherwise, the deficiencies will drive you bananas.

I'm already going crazy trying to figure this out. Believe me, part of me is just wanting to say fug it and leave them all. But at the same time does such thing exist? Attractive and exited about a future, intellectual compatibility and great sex? It seems too good to be true. I've been with a lot of girls and my routine is becoming very old...I've never come across all three, seems impossible.

How are you having great sex without being physically attracted to the girl? I mean, I've bedded some ugly girls but usually not more than one drunken time and I find a high level of mutual attraction to be essential to great sex.

I know, right? Believe it or not sex isn't just about physical attraction....it's about mental being there....knowing exactly what to do with your partner and always doing it at the exact right moment. It's like the difference between a hot ass girl giving you crappy head vs. an average girl you feel you've known since childhood giving you one head like the world ends tomorrow. It's sexual compatibility not to be confused with physical attractiveness.

I can't even have sex with one girl.

On a serious note , go for the girl that will make you happy. Look for someone for the future.

And there is the problem, I just don't know...can't date all three, been down that path before and poo gets crazy...at some point I'll have to chose.

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Are you mad because I'm banging three chicks and have a dilemma? I'd bet irony says I wish I were you and you wish were me :/.

Looks fade. Sex always fades. If you genuinely get along with someone and connect then that will last a lot longer than the other two IMO.

Good, sound advice. It's hard when you're in the 'now' though, giving up either great sex or someone you're attracted to and have potential for someone who gives you only mind orgasms. But I am leaning towards what you're staying. I feel as though great sex will end if I chose this route though, and while that may fade in time...not yet!

Make a Stepford blended of the three.

Haha, I wish.
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Can't quote you because you quoted so many people but I think you listed the first girl first because you like her best, just my hunch.  That's what I'd do if I was ranking women I was seeing, list the one I liked best first.

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