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Have you ever had a good friend cut off all communication with you?


hepcat

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Odd but certain people tend avoid reunions. I know I do. I'm not the type to catch up with people I haven't talk to in years. Frankly, it's the last thing I want to do (similar to running into a person you haven't seen or talk to in a long time and they call you 'family' and/or they wish to take down your info even though they have no intention of ever contacting you). My inner circle is very small.

Perhaps your buddy got cold feet.

 

Best theory I've heard.  But I still don't understand why he wouldn't just say that rather than not respond to me straight up!  Makes no sense...but maybe he's sending a message that he's moving on with his life and isn't interested in the people he knew years ago.  Who knows.

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Literally all of the friends I had 4 years ago (including the ex-girlfriend whom I dated 5 years) refuse to talk to me at all now. This also includes an old high school football coach who was like a father to me for 4 years. The ex will respond to like, texts and facebook messages with one word responses when I get up with her every few months, but that's about it. 

A lot of it has to do with the fact that in those 4 years, I went from quietly atheist to openly atheist. Then, we all moved apart. We stayed in touch some at first, but that has become them ignoring me. Far as I know, they all still stay in touch and make trips to see each other from time to time. So, I'm odd man out apparently. poo happens. I went from having a little "crew" to having a couple of really good friends and that's it, and that's OK.

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My hs best friends I never talk to anymore and we were all pretty close. We became completely different people as the years went by. My best friends from college? I talk to them everyday through Facebook, phone calls, texting and we have reuinions every year. Those are friends for life even though we all live far apart for the most part.

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