Anyone ever have a friends with benefits relationship with an ex?

[lola]

Ya don't say? :lol:

I've had a 'standing offer' for several years with an ex. Basically, no fills, anytime, blah blah blah.

Never took advantage. Knew it just wasn't a good idea.

In a committed relationship these days so absolutely no way, no how anymore.

Yeah, the mere mention of sex can make us form or regain emotions and attachments that are out of our control. Sad, but true. We women just feel and see things so much differently. Tis the only drawback to being a girl :)

[PhillyB]

no i cared too much about their feelings to indulge them with the shangri-la neath my britches

[cookinwithgas]

I had an ex tell me we could hit it whenever I wanted and to be honest it creeped me out, maybe looking back I realized that it was about her not letting go

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[Captain Morgan]

a couple of years ago my ex called me up.  I had lived with her for 2 years before I married

my now ex-wife.  We hadn't seen each other in 10 years.  She had just left her husband

and wanted to bang.

 

I said ok.  Her daughter gets out of school at 2:30, and I get home from work at noon, so

she just comes over and we bang and she leaves.  That's it.  I don't buy her dinner,

don't have to meet her parents, just plain wam bam thank you mam.  At first it was a couple

of times a week, now I'm lucky to see her once a month.  I think she's getting tired of me.

 

No one's feelings are hurt though.  It's been great.

[bleys]

sure..  dated about 6 years ago, reconnected, but then she settled down with someone and had a kid..  then somehow I get caught in a weird situation where I now have extremely hard-to-rationalize expectations, but our chemistry is just too damn strong, so this is what we've got here now..

 

I'll probly see her this weekend, we'll have a big family picnic and if the last 9 months proves anything, later that night it'll just be us 2 that will hit up a club and exercise our demons..  because that's love man.  

 

 

 

btw, codependency is a disease..  it's a sad, pathetic life.  naturally discreet?  invaluable I guess...  

[bleys]

Okay so how fuged up would it be if I invited my ex GF FWB situation to a party I'm throwing...while also inviting several of the other women I've also slept with since we broke up/am sleeping with?  I haven't told her about any of them so she might not even know?

 

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha.....

[hepcat]

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha.....

 

I never did it - that was a joke more than anything...

 

We have a totally fuged up situation right now that I'm not enjoying.  After our meet up two weeks ago where we had some great sex, dinner, overall a nice evening, we met up on Thursday night and I made her dinner, wine, and we watched some TV.  Had a little kissing but no sex.  Then on Monday she came over to my place and we hung out, but no kissing, nothing.  It's kind of fizzling out and she's been saying "I just want to be friends" more and more so, I think it's run its course.  Unlikely we'll see each other any time soon IMO.  If we're not having sex I'm really not interested in seeing my ex.