Jump to content

  • Welcome!

    Register and log in easily with Twitter or Google accounts!

    Or simply create a new Huddle account. 

    Members receive fewer ads , access our dark theme, and the ability to join the discussion!

     

Anyone ever have a friends with benefits relationship with an ex?

hepcat

By hepcat,
in Huddle Lounge

Recommended Posts

hepcat Grand Master

hepcat

Posted
  • Author
Posted

It all depends on how the split happened. Did the FWB with an ex after we broke up. We had a good time because we knew we didn't work in a relationship but we did in the sack and were ok with it. It was just fun times for a while but eventually it ended when we both moved on and started dating other people. 

 

We had a 3 year on-and-off (mostly on) relationship that had it's rocky moments.  Broke up back in January and it felt final because of how messy it was (we were a week away from moving in together when it all went down).  Like you said we don't work well in a relationship but work great in the bedroom and that's what we're doing.  Hoping it ends a similar way with us both finding someone else but it might get messy.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
hepcat Grand Master

hepcat

Posted
  • Author
Posted

My split wasn't messy. We just got to a point we didn't want to keep pretending it was something it wasn't. If you can both be honest with each other about what it is and what it's supposed to be, it shouldn't be any problem.

 

Oh honestly isn't the problem here - we've probably been too honest with each other.  She told me about the guy she's casually seeing.  Apparently he is bad in the sack, hence why she's in the FWB situation with me.  Not sure if she's told him that she's still sleeping with me, but between me and my her it's clear it's all about the sex.  But there have been some relationshippy moments.  I think both of us have been hurt enough by the relationship not to want to dive back into it but we enjoy each other's company on a limited basis and still need good sex.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Guest

Guest

Posted
Posted

That was somebody else... hotsauce maybe?

yeah, oops.  Hotsauce, hepcat.  Hey, at least they both begin with "h".  Damn alzheimers.  

Link to comment
Share on other sites
hepcat Grand Master

hepcat

Posted
  • Author
Posted

Oh ok... maybe I'm the senile one...

 

How'd that end up?  Is that why y'all broke up?

 

Nah, that didn't even factor in.  Long story short we broke up for trivial reasons that shouldn't matter but became a big deal for some reason.  Just doesn't work out long term.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Darth Biscuit Mentor

Darth Biscuit

Posted
Posted

Nah, that didn't even factor in.  Long story short we broke up for trivial reasons that shouldn't matter but became a big deal for some reason.  Just doesn't work out long term.

 

Hey, poo happens...  trivial things can often lead to huge arguments.

 

I say if someone can't mind the little things that bother you, how are they going to deal with the big things?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Archived

This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.

Go to topic listing
×
×
  • Create New...