Sorry I don't have any divorce lawyer friends.  So I'm soliciting advice from where I can get it.  My ex and I have been divorced for 5 years.  I've been paying her $250 a month for child support.  (Not much, I know).  This is to pay for half of the kids healthcare and prescription for ADHD.  No big deal.  I lost my job recently.  She's letting the child support go until I find a new job.  (No problem).  But she wants the money when I start my new job.  She makes considerable more money than me probably around 4 times.  She has a 5 bedroom house and a house at the beach with a pool.  I have a 2000 sq ft townhouse.  She's been posting on social media about the renovations she's been making to her beach house.  She's there every weekend even with gas at $4.00 a gallon.  I told her she seems to be doing okay without the $250 and if maybe I could stop making the payments since it seems like she doesn't need it.  She says she does need it, and if we went to court I would be ordered to pay a lot more.  I'm wondering if I should call her bluff?  We currently have 50/50 custody of the kids.  I'm not sure why I should still have to pay for child support.  I'd like to keep that $250 and do something fun for the kids.