Our current lab mix is one of the most loving family dogs we have ever had. She literally loves everyone in the family. That being said, not sure I would get another one. She was super high energy for the first 12.5 years, and my back yard looks like an artilary practice range. Now at 14, she is suffering from hip issues.
NY to Charleston would be a no brainer for me. I love Charleston, My Dad and sister both live there, I had every intention of moving there some day, until I moved to Wilmington. A move to Charleston is less likely for me now, I like it here.